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Old 11-17-2011, 04:45 PM
 
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Has it occurred to anyone here that this may be some big joke to the OP...someone who has nothing better to do than to get attention this way?
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Old 11-17-2011, 04:49 PM
 
Location: Rockwall
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Has it occurred to anyone here that this may be some big joke to the OP...someone who has nothing better to do than to get attention this way?
Not one time......

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Old 11-17-2011, 04:52 PM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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I swear, this has to be the same sexually inhibited, emotionally stunted man-child posting the same crap over and over again with different screen names. There can't be this many socially inept, psychologically unhealthy, limp-penised men out there. Seriously. There can't.
You got it...What amazes me are the number of intelligent posters who didn't see thru this load of crap.
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Old 11-17-2011, 05:14 PM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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Yes, you are asking for help. However, how do you tell a person that the very thing he doesn't like in other people is the very thing he does?
Hes well aware crisan...its his method to continue to engage posters.
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Old 11-17-2011, 05:23 PM
 
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I honestly did not consider that possibility. Every time my friends asked if I got a number it always seemed to insinuate that I was getting an "in" on a date or some other awkward encounter of some kind. Their attitude about me "getting digits" always made me assume that that act had some innuendo attached to it. It's very hard for me to shake the idea that a phone number has some kind of "personal" interest in it.

To be honest, I never call anybody unless they call me for something. I try to never intrude upon another person's schedule unless it is an extreme emergency as a courtesy to my friends. Someone offering me their number is almost like asking me to be in the mood to casually call them, which is something that just doesn't happen. I keep myself busy until I'm requested.


I'm a bit worried that people here think I'm a sociopath. Just because I'm unable to comprehend certain emotions doesn't mean I feel no emotion. It's just blunted and subdued, like a muffled radio. I honestly do care about people or otherwise I wouldn't go out of my way to help/entertain my friends and family. I have never manipulated my friends, to my knowledge.

What examples would you call manipulative? If I really am doing this, I would like to know so that I can correct myself.
I don't think you are a sociopath...although, based on your posts, "asexual" comes to mind. Could it be that the thought of sexual intimacy is what's driving you to dread any personal advances from the opposite sex?

Ultimately, to each his own and I hope you "find" that someone who has the same drive as you do.
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Old 11-17-2011, 06:04 PM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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Yes, I'm brutally honest.

Asexuality is not a mental deficit. There is no reason for the games.
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Old 11-17-2011, 06:56 PM
 
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Hes well aware crisan...its his method to continue to engage posters.
Yes, I get that. My post was more like "how do you expect people to come out and say the obvious?"

Of course, he has a method to continue to engage. His motivation is to get information/entertainment out of people because he probably thinks that is why we exist in the first place.

Same goes with the girl. Its not okay for her to want something from him but it is okay to want something from her.
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Old 11-17-2011, 09:24 PM
 
Location: Biltmore area of Phoenix
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Why are you posting in a relationship board, again?

To judge by your description of what you think you're after, you're looking for women who match the MBTI indicator of INTJ or INTP. They are about 1-2 percent of the population. So, good luck with that.

Actually, it seems more like you're just licking your wounds in public and trying to play the sour grapes card. I did that myself back in the day. . . before I got my ass kicked.

Peace!
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Old 11-17-2011, 11:19 PM
 
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Yes, I'm brutally honest.

Asexuality is not a mental deficit. There is no reason for the games.
I actually agree with you virgode, my comment was in jest!
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Old 11-17-2011, 11:35 PM
 
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Yes, I'm brutally honest.

Asexuality is not a mental deficit. There is no reason for the games.
I gotta agree with you there.
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