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You are yet another person who doesn't know how to read the writing on the wall and doesn't know when to break off any communication with somebody. Might I suggest you get on that as soon as possible.
Sometimes..you dont't want to jump to any conclusions.......You want to make sure that you've exhausted all possibilities of why the situation is occuring....
Im beginning to think that this was a way out for him......because the more I think about what happened...it is truly ridiculous to let something as simple as text message dissolve a friendship.....All I can say..his loss.....Not gonna reach out via text either...I mean as much as I want to...it would be just like resetting the reset button.....No how no way.Trying to stay positive though through this situation.....Just hurts like hell sometimes....
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Originally Posted by westcoastbabe
Sometimes..you dont't want to jump to any conclusions.......You want to make sure that you've exhausted all possibilities of why the situation is occuring....
I agree with the both posts. But, sometimes the answers are right there and he is what he is.
Imagine yourself in an LTR and out of the blue he does a total shut down and the relationship stops?
OK Ladies.....I need you to rally around me here.......I'm feel myself slippin and falling back into old habits and having flashbacks.......if you have read the beginning of this thread....then you know the situation....Still can't believe this situation happened....It' been almost a month...and I still have not heard from "him".....So want to text him and say "What gives".....or Long time no talk to......... or Happy Belated Thanksgiving.....lol...
OK Ladies.....I need you to rally around me here.......I'm feel myself slippin and falling back into old habits and having flashbacks.......if you have read the beginning of this thread....then you know the situation....Still can't believe this situation happened....It' been almost a month...and I still have not heard from "him".....So want to text him and say "What gives".....or Long time no talk to......... or Happy Belated Thanksgiving.....lol...
OK Ladies.....I need you to rally around me here.......I'm feel myself slippin and falling back into old habits and having flashbacks.......if you have read the beginning of this thread....then you know the situation....Still can't believe this situation happened....It' been almost a month...and I still have not heard from "him".....So want to text him and say "What gives".....or Long time no talk to......... or Happy Belated Thanksgiving.....lol...
What advice would you give to a friend in this situation?
If you haven't heard from him in a month, I would let it go. Sometimes relationships end and we don't get the closure we want, but we need to make peace with it and move forward, not backward.
Really trying to move forward and make peace with it...but really hard sometime....I mean it's not like I had a fallback guy to call when I wanted to go out.
You have to find peace from knowing you dodged a huge bullet...someother girl won't be as lucky...!As far as a fallback guys they're only necessary for very insecure people who can't be alone without man propping them up!!You are stronger then that!!!Stay strong...the more time that passes the less he will matter to you...sometime we don't get resolution from person...that tells us alot about the person in and of itself...kinda like resolution of sorts!!!
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