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Old 11-15-2011, 11:44 AM
 
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Been seeing this guy on and off for about a year....Nothing serious between us..just good friends. Ya know someone do dinner and drinks with from time to time. Well anyway, I accidently one morning texted him something that I had saved as a draft from a previous conversation with him....(nothing incriminating)....Well to make a long story short..he got bent out of shape/ranted on and on about me saving text messages...Couldnt believe it....but then I remembered something he shared with me..(I guess sometime in his day, a female that he was messing around with saved all of his text messages and sent/showed them to his current girlfriend...My question is should I question him about it or just the let the situation go.
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Old 11-15-2011, 11:46 AM
 
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Let it go.
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Old 11-15-2011, 11:47 AM
 
Location: Back in the gym...Yo Adrian!
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He sounds paranoid. Why should he care if you've saved his texts? If he hasn't said anything wrong it shouldn't matter. Maybe he shouldn't be texting if he's going to try and micro-manage other people's actions.
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Old 11-15-2011, 11:48 AM
 
Location: southern california
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unfair dating practices are a giant red flag.
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Old 11-15-2011, 11:54 AM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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Paranoid...how is this relative to your friendship for further discussion?
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Old 11-15-2011, 12:01 PM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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I'll add, its strange to save text messages of an ex and then show them to their current gf. Sounds like the jealousy of a scorned women.
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Old 11-15-2011, 12:39 PM
 
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My point exactly.......Was thinking the same thing....He definitely "scorned" this female.
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Old 11-15-2011, 12:57 PM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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My point exactly.......Was thinking the same thing....He definitely "scorned" this female.

Maybe the choice of the word "scorned" was wrong...

She premeditated saving texts for a future event or need. Can you see how that would make him uncomfortable? The question is why? Is she crazy or did she have good reason?

If he chooses to share details fine...don't press. If your guts putting you on alert, listen to it and act accordingly.
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Old 11-15-2011, 12:59 PM
 
Location: In The Thin Air
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Another reason not to text, EVER! Total communication break down.
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Old 11-15-2011, 01:03 PM
 
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I'd say let it go. And then let him go. Talk about paranoid.

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Another reason not to text, EVER! Total communication break down.
Preaching to the choir, here. Can't stand it, and it's one of the reasons I got rid of my cell phone.
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