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So I was at work today talking with a girl and I mentioned that I was quite sensitive in the sense that I wish for a better world and that I get tears in my eyes when watching shows such as Extreme Makeover home edition and Secret Millionaire. She started laughing and said that that was one of the reasons why she broke up with her previous boyfriend. I have always been sensitive...I actually find it hard not to be with the way this world is and with all the people who are struggling. But anyway, my question...is it a turn off to girls if a guy is sensitive? Maybe not to ALL girls, but most?
Who cares what this girl thinks...just be *you*!
Btw, sensitive girls usually like sensitive guys...you need a sensitive girl my friend!
Here's the thing I've found about sensitive guys -- they are very very sensitive for their own feelings, and you can take a bath in their tears with things that 'touch' them, but they have a kind of blindness for the actual feelings of those closest to them. In other words, their feelings count, yours, not so much!
Lol sorry, but not true I'm also a sensitive guy, and the feelings of others are very, very important to me. I adopt a "Do unto others, as you would have them do unto you" philosophy about it
If I were to intentionally hurt someone's feelings, then I would feel really bad But I do genuinely and sincerely care about others' feelings
Who needs to have someone in your life that is constantly thinking of me me me me? Usually those in-sensitive types had parents who did not have the sense to love their children with all their hearts - and in turn the kid grows up dull and oblivious to the needs of others - a sensitive man - is a person who has empathy - intelligence - the capcity to love - to be gentle - to be a gentle man...
I see young woman who over look gentle men and go for the insensitive brute - who they THINK is good in bed because he is rough and selfish...Then they wonder why they can not find a good man and go from brute to brute....maybe those that do not want good and sensitive men are in a constant state of self punishment and denial?
Sometimes it's all about balance - finding someone who complements you. I'm so overly sensitive that if I was with someone who was as sensitive as I am - we'd probably cry all the time. My husband balances me out.
I see young woman who over look gentle men and go for the insensitive brute - who they THINK is good in bed because he is rough and selfish...Then they wonder why they can not find a good man and go from brute to brute....maybe those that do not want good and sensitive men are in a constant state of self punishment and denial?
So true. I've seen this many times. Many women will even go from abuser to abuser! It's as if they can't fathom the thought that a more sensitive man might be good for them.
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I'm also a sensitive guy, and the feelings of others are very, very important to me. I adopt a "Do unto others, as you would have them do unto you" philosophy about it 
But I do genuinely and sincerely care about others' feelings 
It's as if they can't fathom the thought that a more sensitive man might be good for them.
