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Old 11-24-2011, 11:46 AM
 
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So a person with 30,000 posts is spamming a thread and accusing somebody else of having issues. ROFLMAO
pretty much
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Old 11-24-2011, 03:32 PM
 
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I would think that a person who is interested in porn would want to experience it for himself. As an asexual I can watch porn and fall asleep. It is just like watching slides from childhood family vacations. It is certainly not normal to have a desire for women and not act on it. Perhaps it is selfishness, wanting the sex but not the relationship. Why buy the cow, just get the milk for free.
Well, I've watched porn for many, many years years now and it's not like it's something you can't control. We are rational, we can control these things.

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The difference between you and our OP is, you admit you WANT a woman in your life

I never said I didn't want a woman in my life, I just said that never happened and didn't bother too much.

I've been interested in quite a few women and I'm actually quite attracted to one right now. But it would be ridiculous to even try something with this inexperience, especially when one is not that good looking or a billionaire.
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Old 11-24-2011, 03:35 PM
 
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I think the only problem in these situations is the older you get, the harder it is to find anyone willing to accept your lack of experience.

It's much like the job world catch 22. Every employer wants experience before they'll give you a job, so how do you get a experience if no one will hire you?

Most people want someone with some relationship/sex experience, so the older you get without it, the less likely people are going to give you a chance.

It sucks for those of us in that situation, but those of us who want a relationship may never obtain one as we get older.
That's indeed true and I've gone past the no return point. I don't know how to approach a woman, I don't know if this is even possible in real life or just possible in the film industry.

Ten years ago this would make me mad, now it's just the circumstances I've to deal with.
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Old 11-24-2011, 03:37 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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Yeah. Sorry, I didn't get that from his posts. I think you're trying way to hard to play psychologist here.
You are certainly entitled to your opinion, but nothing about figuring this guy out was "hard".

I wish our OP nothing but the best
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Old 11-24-2011, 03:38 PM
 
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Who cares if youre still a virgin. If it does not bother you, damn what everyone else thinks, its your life to live, not theirs.

That being said If you choose to loose your virginity, remember this:

Cost of Flight from your home town to vegas for a week end -300 dollars
Cost for room and board -300 dollars
Cost for food and entertainment 300 dollars
Gambling money -300 dollars
Trip to the Bunny Ranch-300 dollars

Dying knowing you did not miss out-Pricelesss

For the record I have never paid for sex, but a good friend of mine did, and it changed him. He was not good looking and after Vegas his confidence went through the roof. Now he does not even need to pay for it.

Does he have a bad booze and cocaine habbit now? Sure... but that is irrelevant and beside the point, he is a changed man.
I don't condemn guys who go to prostitutes but I don't think I would even be able to do that. I would be too embarrassed to even take my clothes off. Besides, prostitution (even the high end one) is a rather dirty business.
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Old 11-24-2011, 03:54 PM
 
Location: Schertz, TX
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That being said If you choose to loose your virginity, remember this:

Cost of Flight from your home town to vegas for a week end -300 dollars
Cost for room and board -300 dollars
Cost for food and entertainment 300 dollars
Gambling money -300 dollars
Trip to the Bunny Ranch-300 dollars

Dying knowing you did not miss out-Pricelesss
...and after having done all this I can only imagine the embarrassment
not to mention crushing life altering failure of not being able to achieve
an erection.
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Old 11-26-2011, 11:35 AM
 
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...and after having done all this I can only imagine the embarrassment
not to mention crushing life altering failure of not being able to achieve
an erection.
Fortunately I don't have that problem yet but I can't say it wouldn't happen to me in stressful situation like that.
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Old 11-26-2011, 03:40 PM
 
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Hi all, I've been following these boards for some time know...
At least you are strong and healthy and can work, make money and travel abroad alot. You don't really need a girlfriend because you are strong enough on your own. Strong health and being able to live independently is all that really matters in life, the rest is much less important.

Me, on the other hand, I don't even have that let alone a girlfriend that loves me:

I can't work because I'm too weak, I still live on my father's income, I don't really have any money of my own and I will never be able to drive a car.
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Old 11-26-2011, 03:49 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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At least you are strong and healthy and can work, make money and travel abroad alot. You don't really need a girlfriend because you are strong enough on your own. Strong health and being able to live independently is all that really matters in life, the rest is much less important.

Me, on the other hand, I don't even have that let alone a girlfriend that loves me:

I can't work because I'm too weak, I still live on my father's income, I don't really have any money of my own and I will never be able to drive a car.
Not to be insensitive, but many people with problems and issues manage to find a way to make their life be the best it can be - you can too.

Sure, your situation may be tougher than most, but it's not the worst in the world either.

Look for inspiration in people like Eric LeGrand and make up your mind to live your life to the fullest. It really is a choice only YOU can make.

Paralyzed player is college football's shining light - CNN.com
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Old 11-26-2011, 03:59 PM
 
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Not to be insensitive, but many people with problems and issues manage to find a way to make their life be the best it can be - you can too.
No I can't. I've almost tried everything and it failed. Satan just doesn't want me to have a good life.
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