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Old 11-23-2011, 09:22 PM
 
Location: Arizona
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I met someone online 3 weeks ago online and we have texted each other and occasionally spoken. I feel no rush or urgency, just relaxed. So after 2 weeks of chatting or talking once a day he asks:
"So when am I going to get to meet you?"
I reply: "When are you available?"
He says: "Tuesdays and Saturdays"
I say: How about meeting Saturday?
He says: "I'm relaxing that day."
I say: "Ok, so when would you like to meet?"

Then he doesn't reply for a couple days and I just let it go. Then he texts again for a week and he asks again:
"When can we meet?"
I say: "Saturday I am available."
He says: "I may be available."

At this point I think he's playing games and sending mixed messages and I say: "Come now, I have given you definite answers, can you give me one? I need to coordinate and plan because I need to arrange a sitter".
He says: "I need to arrange and coordinate with my household that day".

I think he's full of it and haven't responded to his inquiries as to why I haven't responded to his messages. He says he really wants to meet...I say he's confused. What do you think?
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Old 11-23-2011, 09:26 PM
 
Location: Pa
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If he gives you faulty answers like this he is a player.
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Old 11-23-2011, 09:31 PM
 
Location: Arizona
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Thanks.
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Old 11-23-2011, 09:34 PM
 
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Sounds to me like he's married. I would avoid him.
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Old 11-23-2011, 09:37 PM
 
Location: U.S.A.
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I think sometimes people you meet ONLINE want to remain just that: flirty online people. And the thought if it actually becoming real freaks them out.
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Old 11-23-2011, 09:38 PM
 
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Move on. Find a real contender. He is just playing with you.
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Old 11-23-2011, 09:40 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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He sounds like a fool.......



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Old 11-23-2011, 09:42 PM
 
Location: Pa
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with his pants on the ground...
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Old 11-23-2011, 09:43 PM
 
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I think sometimes people you meet ONLINE want to remain just that: flirty online people. And the thought if it actually becoming real freaks them out.
I was thinking along the same line.
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Old 11-23-2011, 09:46 PM
 
Location: Arizona
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I was thinking along the same line.

I agree.....but I just have a hard to getting out. I am absolutely fed up with online dating and I give it up for 4/5 months then I crave a good chat or flirtation and I resort back to it.....unfortunately.
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