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She needs professional help well beyond what most can give her. You cannot straighten her out. You cannot save her from herself. If you want to be a friend, fine, but keep in mind, she is a real mess, so expect very bizarre behavior.
It's possible that your friend was abused/raped and that's why she doesn't want to be touched and is talking about changing gender. It's pretty obvious that she really needs a friend right now. She has some issues to work through, but you are aware of that and haven't run the other direction. Perhaps if you hang out with her, as a friend, the whole picture will become clearer for both of you. Best wishes.
lordvader44...I agree with Sunnydee.....she sounds like she's been hurt bad...and not allowing herself to be touched is her defense against being disapointed and hurt again....I think if you can just be a good friend to her for now...and she becomes confidant in that friendship...it could easily bring those defenses down.
I say forget this chick she is a boat load of problems and issues that will make u unhappy. Do u know how precious breasts are to chicks? I don't know any woman who wants hers cut off for any reason. That is totally messed up right there. Run away as fast as u can...
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