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Old 11-25-2011, 11:45 PM
 
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I doubt it artsguy.I think she really has a self image complex.To be totaly honest her face is bellow average, mabey a 3 out of 10.
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Old 11-26-2011, 03:54 AM
 
Location: Northern Wisconsin
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She needs professional help well beyond what most can give her. You cannot straighten her out. You cannot save her from herself. If you want to be a friend, fine, but keep in mind, she is a real mess, so expect very bizarre behavior.
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Old 11-26-2011, 05:35 AM
 
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My spontaneous thought is: find another fish in the sea... a girl who literally want to be man, yikes.
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Old 11-26-2011, 06:03 AM
 
Location: Sunny Florida
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It's possible that your friend was abused/raped and that's why she doesn't want to be touched and is talking about changing gender. It's pretty obvious that she really needs a friend right now. She has some issues to work through, but you are aware of that and haven't run the other direction. Perhaps if you hang out with her, as a friend, the whole picture will become clearer for both of you. Best wishes.
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Old 11-26-2011, 08:29 AM
 
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lordvader44...I agree with Sunnydee.....she sounds like she's been hurt bad...and not allowing herself to be touched is her defense against being disapointed and hurt again....I think if you can just be a good friend to her for now...and she becomes confidant in that friendship...it could easily bring those defenses down.
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Old 11-26-2011, 12:38 PM
 
Location: Türkiye
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she has mental problems
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Old 11-27-2011, 10:33 PM
 
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I say forget this chick she is a boat load of problems and issues that will make u unhappy. Do u know how precious breasts are to chicks? I don't know any woman who wants hers cut off for any reason. That is totally messed up right there. Run away as fast as u can...
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