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I see that you said something to her, which is way better than not saying anything at all.
However, I don't see why people can't be honest. I don't see what's so difficult to say "I'm sorry, this isn't working, please don't contact me anymore." If you don't want to see someone anymore, tell them. If you don't want to be friends with them whatsoever, tell them.
It's rude and cowardly to keep someone wondering.
I have to admit that I am going through this right now. I'm apparently the "clinger." We had been seeing each other, then it seemed like he backed away a bit, then i backed away ... but I finally laid it down yesterday and texted the guy (yes, I know, texting is lame yadda yadda, but it was driving me crazy and he was probably super busy when I wanted to just start the verbal vomiting), that I want him around if he will have me, and this is a good chance for him to brush me off if he wants... I gave him an out and he still won't even say anything. Obviously, I'm done, but I just can't see how someone can let you into their lives and get to know you then just disappear. It's so very rude.
I see that you said something to her, which is way better than not saying anything at all.
However, I don't see why people can't be honest. I don't see what's so difficult to say "I'm sorry, this isn't working, please don't contact me anymore." If you don't want to see someone anymore, tell them. If you don't want to be friends with them whatsoever, tell them.
Something tells me that even if you told this girl you weren't interested in the most brutal honest way she'd still try to come around. Block her. Block her number, delete her from social media sites.
Something tells me that even if you told this girl you weren't interested in the most brutal honest way she'd still try to come around. Block her. Block her number, delete her from social media sites.
Deleted her from Facebook (haven't blocked her yet), and will not reply to any more texts.
Awaiting the text that reads, "why do you hate me?"
Ugh, I'm not sure why, but I'm starting to feel bad.
She's a nice woman.
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How to get rid of a clinger?
