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So guys, help me understand this. Is porn a guy thing or a pevert thing, especially for married men? Hubby borrowed my laptop & when I got it back took me over an hour to delete porn sites. Confronted him said they were just pop ups. The 2 disturbing sites were "maidModerator: PG13", especially that we have a maid. Was wondering if he was thinking of banging the maid. The other was "*****hookup". Found he had filled out a form seeking females aged between 18 & 35. I showed him the form & he just dismissed it. Was so disgusted and told him couldnt sleep with him anymore till we go for counselling and renew our vows and start afresh. He didnt seem to take me serious, even turning the TV back on as I talked. I havent given him some since Monday (5 days now). Am I over reacting or should I be concerned with his behaviour?
Welcome to humanity, where expecting to keep the same interest in one person for the rest of your life is a fairytale. I think you're a little old-fashioned.
Don't let him blow it off... I'm sorry Aganusn but old fashion??? why then get married and take the vows if you plan on "banging" other women. There is definitely something beyond looking at porn here if he is trying to hook up with someone.
I made excuses for my ex (women we're good at that) and he WAS having an affair... counseling is a good idea if that is what he wants.. if he doesn't you might want to get him to talk anyway and if he doesn't then a separation is in order... not over reacting ... just seems like the writing is on the wall and follow your instincts...
if you aren't having sex with him then why wouldn't he be looking for someone else?
She was up until 5 days ago... omg.. really that is a pretty poor excuse but used very often it seems by men... and when a woman uses that as an excuse?? there are names men give women like that... I would never break my vows even if he didn't make love to me.. I would have filed for divorce first...
Porn is extremely common among men in some way, shape or form, and not a cause of concern on it's own.
It's a normal urge, and not a sign of a cheat.
The maid porn, well, I think dressing up is a little fantasy which probably most men have in some way or another, it doesn't automatically mean he wants to bang your maid.
Maybe it's something you could explore together, it could be fun !!
Hooking up forms is a different matter. I guess he could just be curious, I don't know.
It's not the sort of thing I'd do, so I can't comment.
So guys, help me understand this. Is porn a guy thing or a pevert thing, especially for married men? Hubby borrowed my laptop & when I got it back took me over an hour to delete porn sites. Confronted him said they were just pop ups. The 2 disturbing sites were "maid*****", especially that we have a maid. Was wondering if he was thinking of banging the maid. The other was "f...hookup". Found he had filled out a form seeking females aged between 18 & 35. I showed him the form & he just dismissed it. Was so disgusted and told him couldnt sleep with him anymore till we go for counselling and renew our vows and start afresh. He didnt seem to take me serious, even turning the TV back on as I talked. I havent given him some since Monday (5 days now). Am I over reacting or should I be concerned with his behaviour?
I'm pretty permissive when it comes to just viewing porn. A lot of us guy do it, maybe most of us. But the part in bold, in my opinion, is what's most suspect. That makes me think this is more than your average guy just needing to get some porn-watching out of his system.
Last edited by sunshineleith; 11-25-2011 at 01:44 PM..
She was up until 5 days ago... omg.. really that is a pretty poor excuse but used very often it seems by men... and when a woman uses that as an excuse?? there are names men give women like that... I would never break my vows even if he didn't make love to me.. I would have filed for divorce first...
he obviously feels he's not getting enough action, otherwise he wouldnt have been looking up those things. i suspect this is ongoing.
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