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I dont get this. It doesnt bother me at all. If a woman complains about her own body it is not a turnoff to me. When this happens it just shows that she has identified an area of her body to target for improvement at the gym. If she complains about other women's bodies, it doesnt bother me either and is DEFINITELY not a turnoff. If she's being just mean or rude to where the other person can hear it then that isnt good. Mrs. Lao can be extremely harsh, but I know she views things through the lens of a lifelong ballet/ballroom dancer and yoga enthusiast. Had to shush her at a friends wedding recently because she was cracking jokes about the size of bride and bridesmades (yes they were HUGE). Had to make sure no one heard her, but it was not a turnoff.
So, your wife is preoccupied with other people's bodies and she's extremely rude about it with being unable to keep her apparently HUGE mouth shut.
"what does she look like naked and what would it be like to bone her?" are the first two things that go through my head when I meet any woman who isn't directly unattractive.
I think 4/6 of these will apply to 99% of all men
1. Men don't need romance.
2. Every man has pictured you naked.
3. At some point, he has probably fantasized having sex with the other women in your life (friends, family, coworkers).
4. Until pressed to admit he’s in a relationship...
5. Most men will always be a little insecure about the size of their, ahem, Johnson.
6. Men are easily turned off by women who always complain about their bodies
What do you think guys correct? Or not?
From my perspective...
1. Agree.
I play along because it puts a woman
in the mood. And yes, sexy lingerie is visually
stimulating.
2. Disagree.
Not all women look good nude.
3. Disagree.
Once I get involved, It actually never crosses my mind
to imagine gettin' it on with her friends/kins.
4. Disagree.
True love will make you come clean.
[no pun intended]
5. Disagree.
Ive been told, "Its not the size of the ship, but the motion of the ocean."
6. Agree.
Yes if I have picked and deemed her sexworthy,
It is afront to my taste to hear her disapproval of
what I consider attractive/sexy: her figure.
1. Agree.
I play along because it puts a woman
in the mood. And yes, sexy lingerie is visually
stimulating.
2. Disagree.
Not all women look good nude.
3. Disagree.
Once I get involved, It actually never crosses my mind
to imagine gettin' it on with her friends/kins.
4. Disagree.
True love will make you come clean.
[no pun intended]
5. Disagree.
Ive been told, "Its not the size of the ship, but the motion of the ocean."
6. Agree.
Yes if I have picked and deemed her sexworthy,
It is afront to my taste to hear her disapproval of
what I consider attractive/sexy: her figure.
I like the last one and agree. If I find a guy hot and he says he's not is my picker broken then?
Most. Men are usually the first ones to crack a joke about a woman with an imperfect body or parts. So, it's hilarity to me that they want to request that a woman show the utmost confidence in her body. Based on what? Yet, that one is listed time and again as a must have.
#1: not true, at least for me anyway -- as a man, I most definitely want and need romance! Physical intimacy is nice and all (although I haven't yet partaken of that of course, so I am speaking hypothetically here). But for me as a guy, non-intimate romance is much more important than intimate romance. More than anything else, I *love* gentle, affectionate, soft-hearted, romantic and compassionate women, who are kind and sweet and loving. And really that is hands-down the most important thing to me Ultimately, I need a special sweetie's love and affection and tender loving words, to feel truly loved, and happy.
#2: doesn't necessarily always apply, even if I was in fact romantically interested in the girl
#3: doesn't apply (due to my lack of experience in actual relationships that would necesssarily result in such described behavior occurring).
#4: for me, absolutely not true -- b/c I *want* loving, long-term, steady and exclusive marriage-minded relationships I want "the one", not to flirt with "the many"
#5: honestly never seriously thought about it
#6: not really -- if someone I loved was unhappy about her body, I would try to reassure her that I think she is 100% beautiful, and that I love her, 100%, just as she is
Good answers Knight. For someone with so called "limited experience", you have a good idea of how and what to be to a women..Good post. Reps..
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Physical intimacy is nice and all (although I haven't yet partaken of that of course, so I am speaking hypothetically here). But for me as a guy, non-intimate romance is much more important than intimate romance. More than anything else, I *love* gentle, affectionate, soft-hearted, romantic and compassionate women, who are kind and sweet and loving. And really that is hands-down the most important thing to me 
Ultimately, I need a special sweetie's love and affection and tender loving words, to feel truly loved, and happy.
