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Old 12-27-2011, 05:58 PM
 
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Men: Let's say you've met a girl and you are interested in her. But she's far away and you guys are getting to know each other through other means than face-to-face (calls, texts, etc.) How frequently would you communicate with her?
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Old 12-27-2011, 06:10 PM
 
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Instead, you should be asking the women how often a man who's communicating through other means such as text, calls, skype, etc should be contacting a female to make her feel like he's interested.

Sorry junior, you're not ready yet. You're just playing games with her.
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Old 12-27-2011, 06:21 PM
 
Location: San Antonio/Houston-Dallas/Tricity
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You call, then she call, you txt then she text. You don't call her 100 times a day, or send her txt after txt and demand a reply.
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Old 12-27-2011, 06:27 PM
 
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Ask her how often she'd prefer to have contact. That's the only way you'll know for sure, because everyone's different. Personally, I like at least one text each day, even if it's just saying "Hi". When it's long distance and that's all you've got, it just shows that the other person is thinking about you and isn't getting bored. But some people only like contact a couple of times a week, or they feel suffocated.

It's an individual preference, and the best way to start communicating well with her over the miles is to simply be open and honest and ask her. It'll pave the way for better communications in the future.
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Old 12-27-2011, 06:29 PM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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I thought Sydney was female
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Old 12-27-2011, 06:36 PM
 
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i thought sydney was female
yes. Thank you.
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Old 12-27-2011, 06:41 PM
 
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OK, then your question should have been worded differently. What you really mean is, "I'm not happy with how often he's communicating with me, am I right in being upset or am I being ridiculous?"

How often is he communicating with you? Have you told him you want X amount of time from him? Because that's where you need to start.
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Old 12-27-2011, 06:43 PM
 
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Texting is an easy way to end up on my ****list regardless of who you are.
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Old 12-27-2011, 06:50 PM
 
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^^^ agree.
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Old 12-27-2011, 07:09 PM
 
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Men: Let's say you've met a girl and you are interested in her. But she's far away and you guys are getting to know each other through other means than face-to-face (calls, texts, etc.) How frequently would you communicate with her?
Answer: Every few hours. At least once a day.
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