Serious question for guys? I need some advice??? (dating, girls, couple)
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ISo I started talking to this guy about 2 months ago. He txts and calls everyday. I told him I don't want anything with him because he has too much drama in his life right now and I think he just likes me cuz I been supporting him as a friend. We don't even see each other. Anyway he is been very straight with me & I want to be too. The thing is I slept with his cousin couple years ago, he doesn't know. I never thought our paths were gonna come across at any point. I wanna tell him but I'm afraid he's gonna criticize me. If he wants to stop talking to me I understand but idk what to do at some point if this goes somewhere he will find out so I wanna be honest that's all. I want to hear from a guy perspective =\
** I mean I respect guys & I don't think a guy would wanna be with someone who was with their cousin 1st right? Idk at least I wouldn't or a friend, I know there are boundaries**
Thank you very much. This helps a lot. Is been a week that I can't stop thinking of him he's really nice & sweet and he says I'm a cold person but I'm very honest & he put his feelings out there for me & this is in some other level I can't do that to him. Thnx again.
just tell him that you feel he should know you slept with his cousin before things go any further. if he can handle it, he will. if not, he will move on.
But I have a good relationship with his cousin don't think it was a one night stand or anything like that. They don't talk to each other they are worse than girls I swear & that's why I don't want to get into it. But thnx for the reply it is good to hear a guy perspective. I'm not a party girl I work a lot, school, I don't have time for guys.
if you hide it from it and he finds out later it will be worse. so unless you know for 100% fact that either he will never find out or that you guys will never get serious, i would not go into the relationship hiding things that you know will hurt the other one.
Because he is very persistent, somehow I started thinking about him more in the last week. I haven't been or date noone in almost 2 years
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