Am I undateable? (romantic, meaning, interested, relation)
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Relationships of any type are a give and take two way road. Single mothers with kids take more then they give.
i think this is the bottom line.^ i've never seen it play out any differently.
this has been a pretty brutal thread, though. It's not a lost cause, she just needs to go online and find some meek, mild-mannered shy type of guy. Your classic "Beta male".... A guy with a good job and no testicles.
I'm a single guy (educated, employed, all that jazz). Many of my guy friends are in the same boat, and we've talked about this. We all have no children and we all agreed that a woman having a child is an absolute deal breaker. A relationship would be out of the question.
My best advice would be to focus purely on single fathers. Or, better yet, you could try having children with someone who will actually stick around. Just a thought.
[quote=felicitev21;22474184]Im so tired and frustrated of being single. Im fairly young (29) have a college degree, good job, own place. Im a sweet, genuine, loyal person, have a variety of interests, excellent cook, love sports and beer and my sex drive is through the roof. Im almost always the one wanting sex in my relationships. I think my only "con" would be that I have three child
Im so tired and frustrated of being single. Im fairly young (29) have a college degree, good job, own place. Im a sweet, genuine, loyal person, have a variety of interests, excellent cook, love sports and beer and my sex drive is through the roof. Im almost always the one wanting sex in my relationships. I think my only "con" would be that I have three child
you got 3 children with the same woman or all different women?
It's pretty obvious the three kids are the problem, and I honestly don't blame guys for not wanting a relationship with someone who already has 3 kids. I wouldn't date a guy with 3 kids. I'm not sure I'd date a guy with even 1 kid...maybe, but 3...whew, no way. Nice guys in your age range are probably looking for someone to start a family with. You already have one.
It's definitely the 3 kids that are the deterrent from you establishing a relationship with a guy. Guys don't like ready made families especially guys who don't have any children, they are thinking of it from a financial and emotional bags of things. I'm 39 and still looking for the one and I'm childless so I'm on the same boat as you except that I'm way older than you are
So where do you line for "young" go? 40? 50? death?
Depends on who you ask.
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