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I'm pretty young right now plus socially less than average because of years of isolation. So I don't really plan on dating seriously until I'm probably like 19 or 20. At that point I always thought the appropriate approach would be to wait 6 months to weed out all the bad eggs. Those just interested in sex and also I want to have my first time to be with someone I'm going to marry and has proven he's not just interested in getting physically but likes me for me. Plus I know not most guys would wait 6 months which I don't want to be easy to get in bed. At this point I don't have any need for sex so doing it would have to be for a guy I actually liked as a person. Also I don't want to be a statistic that gets an std by 25. So what's the average time period?? Advice? Is this a long period?
I'm 24 and a virgin. Guess I'm waiting for marriage, unless I meet someone with whom I am comfortable and if it feels right and I will be happy with my decision now and the future.
Whatever you do, if you are in alignment with your decision and you are 100% comfortable, it's all good. If you don't hold it against you, then anyone else's opinion won't matter.
Whether it's a week or 6 months.... you won't appear to be easy or hard to get to a guy. If it feels right for both of you, then it's going to be okay. Enjoy it.
Don't push yourself. Don't try to plan in advance or set rules and restrictions up for yourself. Let it happen as it happens.
Everytime someone asks this poster a question, collectively her responses get more and more hiliariously contradictory !!!
On describing herself: 18 year old virgin, Good looking, Has high-standards for engaging in sexual activity, Doesn't plan to date seriously until 19 or 20, Very new to everything due to isolation, No experience with men or anyone. Hmm, has no problem publicly describing the dimensions of her vagina in terms of inches it can accommodate. (See Discussing Sexual Genitalia topic below)
On sex itself: Plans to wait for 6 months to have sex. This is due to her wanting it to be with someone she'll marry. Says losing Virginity isn't great, isn't pleasant, and she isn't going to think of think well of having sex with a man as much as with a sex toy. Reiterates has high standards for indulging in sexual relationship.
On her sexual drive/desire: Has high standards for sexual purity but not a prude, Not sexually repressed, Highly sexual, has a high sex drive but doesn't need a guy, Sexually opened and wild. Reiterates has high standards for sexual purity with self-esteem, doesn't care about sex cuz can get off without it. (???) Doesn't need it in life. More of a fan of anal sex than vaginal, can't orgasm vaginally. Reiterates has high standards for indulging in sexual relationship.
On discussing sex genitalia: refers to them by their street names: p-word, d-word, actually gives dimensions of how deep her vagina is by stating tampon doesn't fit and 2" deep hurts. Hmm, repeats motto of having higher standards and saving self.
On marriage: Plans to marry at 22 or 23 yrs old. Will implement a 6 mos plan of exclusive dating without sex to make sure it's going somewhere (i.e: marriage). But states not even all that into marriage. Reiterates has high standards for indulging in sexual relationship.
On children: CAH prevents her from having children. Not into having children...and uh btw... states not even all that into marriage. Reiterates has high standards for indulging in sexual intercourse.
On religion: Never dated in her religious faith, not a religious person but referred to another poster as low for making fun of her religion. Reiterates she is a virgin with high standards for induling in sexual intercourse...
On professional career goal: Plans to be a casino worker or attorney (with a high standard for indulging in sex yada yada).
CONCLUSION: Watch out Vegas! Among your citizenry is a virginal potentially future Casino-worker-turned-attorney with a high sex drive but not all that into sex, yet has a wild and open sexual attitude, but a shallow 2" vagina, who can't orgasm vaginally but often does anally, who can't do what other girls can do (???), who is dating a man that professes to be Christian even though she doesn't profess her religion but will only engage in sex with a man after dating for 6 months so that she can determine that he likes her for her and thereby proven that he practices sexual self-control, and that their relationship is leading to marriage even though she is not all that into marriage BUT HAS A HIGH STANDARD FOR INDULGING IN SEX.
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