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And Sweet, as a fellow dating sufferer, my answer would be if you have not heard from him by Wednesday, then he isn't interested, or is intimidated or just lazy. Either way, you did right deleting the number and moving on.
Good luck on the next one
Thanks! I could definitely use some luck.
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Are you being sarcastic, or do you really think that no contact for a month or two after a date is okay?
I have waited months to reply to messages from guys on dating sites, but I've never done that to anyone after I'd actually met them in person.
The thing is, that he is dating other women, and is probably not rich enough to date you 2 times a week, since you guys are not exclusive. If you keep erasing guy's numbers really fast, you are going to end up with a lot of first dates and no second dates.
Also, you should have several cute guys' number if you are not dating anyone exclusively. Have fun.
The thing is, that he is dating other women, and is probably not rich enough to date you 2 times a week, since you guys are not exclusive. If you keep erasing guy's numbers really fast, you are going to end up with a lot of first dates and no second dates.
Also, you should have several cute guys' number if you are not dating anyone exclusively. Have fun.
Wow, Temp, you have it all figured out!
Is there anything we should know and don't know...?
Also, you should have several cute guys' number if you are not dating anyone exclusively.
LOL! That would be nice, but that is not the reality of my life. I seem to have the most success with nerdy guys who are very nice and sweet, but sexually...no.
Ok well are you going three or more days without contacting these women AT ALL? You wouldn't do that with someone who you weren't "stringing along", right?
You said you met him sunday for the first time.
If this were the third date, then you have reason to be pissed.
As for me, I act weird a lot. It's often a reflection of my psychological state, as a lot of things are going on for me. But I always respond to texting, and then go on a silence binge. I do come out of it from time to time. Simply coz I am trying not to get too involved.
You know what I learned, women don't complain about unresponsive guys as long as they get good dinner You pick up the tab without fuss despite the size of it, you're a good investment.
Please don't rub it in for those of us still in dating hell
And Sweet, as a fellow dating sufferer, my answer would be if you have not heard from him by Wednesday, then he isn't interested, or is intimidated or just lazy. Either way, you did right deleting the number and moving on.
Good luck on the next one
Agree 100%. In my experience, the men who were interested would either ask me for another date on the spot or will schedule something before or on Wednesday.
OP, he is/was not that into you. Part of life. Just move on, a lot of fish in the ocean, althought I wonder sometimes WHEN I will catch a good one
If this were the third date, then you have reason to be pissed.
I'm not pissed, just disappointed. How long do you think is reasonable for a woman to wait for a guy to contact her after a first date before she assumes that he's just NOT going to contact her?
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OP, he is/was not that into you. Part of life. Just move on, a lot of fish in the ocean, althought I wonder sometimes WHEN I will catch a good one
Nooooo!!! I can't accept "he's just not that into you". There HAS to be some other reason why I haven't heard from him. He'd be crazy not to want to see me again!
Seriously though, I pretty much always agree to a second date unless there's a major dealbreaker discovered on the first, so I can't help but wonder exactly what turned him off so much. Not that it matters in the grand scheme of things, but it just concerns me that maybe he thought that I wasn't the same person that my dating profile suggested I was.
I'm not pissed, just disappointed. How long do you think is reasonable for a woman to wait for a guy to contact her after a first date before she assumes that he's just NOT going to contact her?
If there was no contact at all, after the date so far, then you are right.
But you said he texted the same day?
I'll be honest with you. He's working up another girl I can tell becoz I do the same thing, but I don't totally disappear for like 4 to 5 days.
Nooooo!!! I can't accept "he's just not that into you". There HAS to be some other reason why I haven't heard from him. He'd be crazy not to want to see me again!
Of course! He's in coma in a hospital!
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