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I'm pretty young right now plus socially less than average because of years of isolation. So I don't really plan on dating seriously until I'm probably like 19 or 20. At that point I always thought the appropriate approach would be to wait 6 months to weed out all the bad eggs. Those just interested in sex and also I want to have my first time to be with someone I'm going to marry and has proven he's not just interested in getting physically but likes me for me. Plus I know not most guys would wait 6 months which I don't want to be easy to get in bed. At this point I don't have any need for sex so doing it would have to be for a guy I actually liked as a person. Also I don't want to be a statistic that gets an std by 25. So what's the average time period?? Advice? Is this a long period?
I have a mild form of cah I'm not likely to get pregnant without trying with medical help. I think ideally I plan to wait for marriage or until I'm 22 or 23 that's when I plan to implement the 6 month wait but yea. I was just wondering if it's longer than average or what?
I'm pretty young right now plus socially less than average because of years of isolation. So I don't really plan on dating seriously until I'm probably like 19 or 20. At that point I always thought the appropriate approach would be to wait 6 months to weed out all the bad eggs. Those just interested in sex and also I want to have my first time to be with someone I'm going to marry and has proven he's not just interested in getting physically but likes me for me. Plus I know not most guys would wait 6 months which I don't want to be easy to get in bed. At this point I don't have any need for sex so doing it would have to be for a guy I actually liked as a person. Also I don't want to be a statistic that gets an std by 25. So what's the average time period?? Advice? Is this a long period?
I have a mild form of cah I'm not likely to get pregnant without trying with medical help. I think ideally I plan to wait for marriage or until I'm 22 or 23 that's when I plan to implement the 6 month wait but yea. I was just wondering if it's longer than average or what?
Okay still...why put a number on it?
You might see one guy every other day for 6 months, another guy maybe twice a month for 6 months...do you see how arbitrary this is?
You will know when the time is right. I can promise you that. Follow your gut!
I meant 6 months of seriously exclusive dating. I just want to know it's going to go somewhere serious where I know marriage isn't too far off. My grandparent married 2 months after knowing each other. So I mean I know it's not the same always I just mean if I didn't like get married before 6 months were up then that's what I mean by standard wait. So it's like a month on average??
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