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Old 01-18-2012, 06:55 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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Is physical abuse the new flavor of the month? No....

I don't care whether this is male or female, why would this be acceptable?
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Old 01-18-2012, 07:06 PM
 
Location: Southwest France
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I prefer hair pulling.
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Old 01-18-2012, 07:20 PM
 
Location: Fort Worth, TX
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I've seen it popping up in porn more often, it's weird.
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Old 01-18-2012, 07:21 PM
 
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Yeah I've never done this before. Not planning to slap a woman in the face in the future either.
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Old 01-18-2012, 07:29 PM
 
Location: NJ
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It is hard to fathom anyone doing this who had not crossed lines of abuse in the past. Especially if the guy is doing it, as the general difference in strength, along with vulnerable areas of the face ..could easily lead to actual injury, at least temporarily.
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Old 01-18-2012, 07:56 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Hmmm heard of some weird stuff....but if you slap me in the face you will get a swift kick to the balls.
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Old 01-18-2012, 08:13 PM
 
Location: Back in the gym...Yo Adrian!
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Not sure why this really shocks anyone. There are all sorts of fetishes and kinks out there, and face slapping is probably one of the most vanilla in terms of what pushes some people's buttons. Think about it, there are people out there who are into torture, humiliation, toilet games, you name it, there's no telling what will turn some people on, and it's nothing new either. Been going on for a long time. Obviously this isn't something you start off with right out the gate. It's something asked for or discussed, or at least that's how it should go down.

But to answer the OP's question...yes, I dated a girl who wanted to get rough. Only problem was it wasn't discussed before hand. Long story short, she's straddled across my lap riding along, all is good, then...THUMP, she punches me right in the face. No warning, no easing into it, just plugged me right in the kisser. I pushed her off and asked WTF (try saying that with a busted lip...it was more like "blut tha puck"?!? She said she felt like changing things up a bit, wanted to try something different. That was just one of the many crazy things that would surface with this girl.
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Old 01-18-2012, 08:15 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Not sure why this really shocks anyone.
It shocks because it was presented as a general "trend."
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Old 01-18-2012, 08:21 PM
 
Location: Back in the gym...Yo Adrian!
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It shocks because it was presented as a general "trend."
By yet another new member with 2 posts and no sources or elaboration. Obviously it's not a trend. OP is either trying to induce overreaction or do a hit and run by starting a supermarket tabloid style title to grab attention and then never return to the thread to contribute further...also nothing new.
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Old 01-18-2012, 08:23 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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By yet another new member with 2 posts and no sources or elaboration. Obviously it's not a trend. OP is either trying to induce overreaction or do a hit and run by starting a supermarket tabloid style title to grab attention and then never return to the thread to contribute further...also nothing new.
Sure. I wouldn't argue that.
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