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Women are not "one size fits all" when it comes to men. Not even close. That is why men cannot make a living as a stripper or hooker. Is this news to you?
Women are a different story. That woman you want? Yeah....so do the other 200 guys in the bar. Especially the guys putting ones in her g-string.
So I am getting ready to date seriously now. I already have excellent dating attributes, but always want to improve. I am 6'2 tall dark and handsome, muscular but not gross-buff. White/Asian, 24 y/o with an excellent job and all around good guy personality--kind, gentle, etc.
SO THE QUESTION IS...
What can I do to improve? I want women to fall all over for me. Whether it is a noble volunteering or other activity or anything physical or mental. From dressing a certain way to acting in a desirable way, I WANT TO HEAR WHAT "DOES IT" FOR YOU, AS AN INDIVIDUAL. As an individual, what things makes YOU think "OMG I MUST have him."
Thanks!
Not focusing so much on "hotness", for one.
From your description, you apparently sound like a hunky guy. If you want a great woman, then looks will only go so far. Frankly, your desire to have tons of women "fall" all over you makes you seem just plain unattractive as a dating option.
If you're looking for casual hookups or superficial relationships, then no need to fret, you've got the bases covered. If you want something deeper, you should start with a personality makeover.
You sound physically adorable. So...my advice would be: Have fun with her, let her know that you are thrilled, proud to be with her. Exude confidence...but never be cocky. Be Loyal. Really Listen to her, let her talk until she is bored with her own voice...but be truly interested in what she's saying. Joke, have fun, dialogue. Find out what your common interests and beliefs are...and go with that.
Don't check out other chicks when you are with her...ever. Don't be cheap...be affectionate and sincere. Frankly, Don't "try" to be anything...just be real with her. Make a woman feel like she is the most beautiful sexy woman you've ever seen...but only if you really believe it...and she's yours.
Oh...and...Have nice breath...smell fresh... Cuddling will get you really far...please her in every way...and it's a done deal.
Last edited by ophelia13; 01-18-2012 at 06:34 PM..
Great advice from Opehlia.... I have no idea what type of woman you are looking for. I like these things..
Honest and trustworthy
Intelligent and well-read
Humorous/witty
Well-traveled/worldly
Confident but not cocky
Tall (6'2 is perfect)
Fit and athletic. Playing on a regular sport league is good.
Adventurous. Loves to try new things.
Active and Energetic. No couch potatoes.
Considerate of others
Rugged and outdoorsy
Manly and strong. I'm not into metrosexuals.
A high achiever in some area (not necessarily financial)
Financially independent (not necessarily rich, but good with money)
Into me, but not a lapdog
Affectionate and sensual
Well-groomed
Smells good
Chivalrous
Can fix things. I find that very sexy in a man.
You need to ask a man those questions.. Here's a mans point of view.. Have money or act like you have money.. Women are attracted to money and power..
Agree... But I think women are most attracted to the power. The money is a side effect.
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Then of course there's the old tried and true method.. Treat them like dirt... I have no idea why women respond to that but they do..Well not all but many do..
But are those the kind of women you want to date? A girl who accepts being treated like dirt. I once had a guy try to treat me this way after a first date and I was gone. He thought he had game by pretending to blow me off. I have too much self-confidence to deal with that. He spent the next year pursuing after me like crazy, even serenading me with his friends in a bar by singing "You've lost that loving feeling" which was hilarious to me and my girlfriends. I do not get played.
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I don't know if you ever hit the bars but consider this. think about he time you were drink off your arse and women still talked to you and gave you their phone number.. I could never understand that one..
Sounds like desperate women.
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Rule #1. Never chase women, let them chase you and they will..
Many good women will not chase. I think the man should make the move.
If you meet me and think, OMG I MUST have her" then you would be perfect for me.
Lets develop this further. I truly believe in this. When anyone likes me, I tend to like them back. Is this the norm? I think so.
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Cuddling will get you really far...please her in every way...and it's a done deal. 
I could never understand that one..
