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I love how people are so quick to buy that the OP's perception of this woman is completely grounded in reality and not imagined, calling her names and such.
I've had guys accuse me of playing games with them, simply because my life didn't revolve around them and I had other serious concerns.
Translation: Guilty as charged. You fit the description little lady..change your ways Miss Not-Exclusive
Well, be suspicious of generalities without details...accusing her of "playing games" and acting "hot and cold" without a ton of details elaborating the fact. Maybe she's just not into him period really, and he's perceiving her "hotness" as when she's going out of her way to be friendly and her "coldness" as when she has her priorities on her mind.
Why would she want to give him a kiss if she's not into him? Although I do agree that some guys tend to overread the girl's niceness and smile as "i like you" when that's not necessary the case. Maybe she's playing the "Shallow initial contact" game. If she's not into you, just move on. Don't waste your time.
Why would she want to give him a kiss if she's not into him? Although I do agree that some guys tend to overread the girl's niceness and smile as "i like you" when that's not necessary the case. Maybe she's playing the "Shallow initial contact" game. If she's not into you, just move on. Don't waste your time.
yeah at the end of the first date she initiated the hug and kissed me on the lips. i havent done anything different with her since then or acted anyway different
nope more like being flirty with me one day than next not talking to me at all the next. Like after we went on a first date she kissed me at the end of the date and it seemed to go very well, but she never followed up with me to say she had a good time or to go out again even though we exchanged numbers after that until she accepted my offer for a second date the next week. I dont know, i just expect that when a girl likes you or is interested in you they'll meet you half way, meaning they'll initiate texts or convo. When i ignored her for a few days and didnt text her one weekend the follow week she started initiating convo again. Thats what I mean by it seems like shes playing games. Now i dont act needy or anything with her. I dont overly talk to her or text her. Im basically going at her pace whatever that is.
Am I the only one who doesn't think this is game playing? I know plenty of girls who wouldn't ask a guy on a first or second date...before she has an idea of whether he's really interested. She probably expected you to call and ask her out again. That's why she gave you her number and she prob got yours so that she'd know it was you when you called. If she never initiates dates, that's a different story - but after just one date, I don't think it's playing games. I also don't get what the problem with texting/calling is. You didn't call her so she called you...sounds straightforward. If I were her, I'd be wondering if you were even interested since you don't call for long periods of time and don't want to ask her on dates.
Maybe I just play too many games b/c I really don't get what the problem is.
Am I the only one who doesn't think this is game playing? I know plenty of girls who wouldn't ask a guy on a first or second date...before she has an idea of whether he's really interested. She probably expected you to call and ask her out again. That's why she gave you her number and she prob got yours so that she'd know it was you when you called. If she never initiates dates, that's a different story - but after just one date, I don't think it's playing games. I also don't get what the problem with texting/calling is. You didn't call her so she called you...sounds straightforward. If I were her, I'd be wondering if you were even interested since you don't call for long periods of time and don't want to ask her on dates.
Maybe I just play too many games b/c I really don't get what the problem is.
ive asked her out twice, i havent called her just texted. but usually when girls like you they'll text you or at least initiate texts. She hasnt even really done that. The times she has initiated is over AIM
I think I'd drop a girl who was playing any games, assuming it was obvious she was doing it on purpose. Unless we're talking about board games, although that could get annoying, too.
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