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Old 01-20-2012, 04:16 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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Your name is Stephanie, too?? That's a cool icebreaker!! haha

Anyway, don't figure on a specific amount of time. Talk to her about fun stuff she likes to do and how her weekend went. At some point if she is in committed relationship she's going to bring it up. Example: "My boyfriend and I went hiking..." Otherwise, ask as it comes up if she would like to join you for miniature golf on a Friday night. Or hiking on a Saturday.

[or both]

"My boyfriend just took me skydiving in the Bahamas last weekend because he had to straighten some things out for one of the plants to his corporation, no big deal, next weekend his dad is going to send us on a cruise through the southern pacific, and take me shopping for my new Mercedes for our 5th year anniversary"
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Old 01-20-2012, 04:17 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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play what?

just call the girl

but punch your parents in the face for naming you Stephanie before calling her

Ok I seriously have to change the way I wrote my OP
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Old 01-20-2012, 10:52 PM
 
Location: Singapore
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Tell her it was kind of like an instant connection and you'd like to get a cup of coffee together. Then you can suggest dinner or whatever. If you don't someone else taking those classes might.
word..
but just play it cool..you don't wanna seem eager and desperate..it's gonna be a turn off..
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Old 01-20-2012, 10:59 PM
 
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I think if you plan to study together, why not just ask her to dinner (or whatever) when you're done?

Something like " thanks for meeting me to study. I'm going to grab some food/coffee if you'd like to join me.". Easy breezy.
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Old 01-20-2012, 11:07 PM
 
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This made me laugh.
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Old 01-20-2012, 11:10 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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This made me laugh.

Considering that fact that you're a virgin, I don't care much. I simply didn't know if it would be better to get to know her a little better before asking her or not. I did get her number..
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Old 01-20-2012, 11:22 PM
 
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Considering that fact that you're a virgin, I don't care much. I simply didn't know if it would be better to get to know her a little better before asking her or not. I did get her number..
That made me laugh even more! It was a reply to that Jesus Picture you da man but it didn't go through.
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Old 01-20-2012, 11:25 PM
 
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And what does being a virgin have to do with anything I got plenty of time.
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Old 01-20-2012, 11:32 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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I think if you plan to study together, why not just ask her to dinner (or whatever) when you're done?

Something like " thanks for meeting me to study. I'm going to grab some food/coffee if you'd like to join me.". Easy breezy.

Well I guess I'll just see how it goes. I was stuck with a boring day of work at the computer and had nothing to do besides ask here. For all I know she has a boyfriend and I'm at a losing battle from the get-go.
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Old 01-20-2012, 11:34 PM
 
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Well I guess I'll just see how it goes. I was stuck with a boring day of work at the computer and had nothing to do besides ask here. For all I know she has a boyfriend and I'm at a losing battle from the get-go.
Keep it casual. If she does have an boyfriend, no harm done.

Good luck!
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