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Old 01-20-2012, 03:07 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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Well, the semester just started, and the first day I did what any guy does, look for the hot girls in the class Then I saw this girl walk in, and she was really really cute and then she started to sit down, kind of looked over at me and then sat behind me. She'd ask me questions here and there and I'd help her out a bit. The other day, I said whatever, and I went and sat next to her.. and we talked a lot and worked on an assignment. We stayed after class working on it blah blah, then my lab partner came and got me, so she realized I had to go.

We walked down the hall and when I got to my class I suggested we should start studying together and meet up some time. She smiled and said of course and gave me her number and I gave her mine. As she was walking away she said "oh I'm Stephanie" and I replied with my name ..

Anyways, I can tell pretty much that she's into me, but how long should I wait to ask her out on a date? Should I ask her to hang out after we've studied together once, or should I just try to talk to her in class more til she knows me better?

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Old 01-20-2012, 03:14 PM
 
Location: Maine at last
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Tell her it was kind of like an instant connection and you'd like to get a cup of coffee together. Then you can suggest dinner or whatever. If you don't someone else taking those classes might.
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Old 01-20-2012, 03:15 PM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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She smiled and said of course and gave me her number and I gave her mine. As she was walking away she said "oh I'm Stephanie" and I replied the same..
Is your name Stephanie too??

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Anyways, I can tell pretty much that she's into me, but how long should I wait to ask her out on a date? Should I ask her to hang out after we've studied together once, or should I just try to talk to her in class more til she knows me better?
^^^
You should let her know you a bit better. When you hang out with her after class studying together you will know/feel when is the right time to say: lets change the scenery and go for ... a cup of coffee, a dinner, a snack, see a movie ... or whatever.
Good luck! Looks like you are a nice, caring guy...

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Old 01-20-2012, 03:22 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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You name is Stephanie too??



^^^
You should let her know you a bit better. When you hang out with her after class studying together you will know/feel when is the right time to say: lets change the scenery and go for ... a cup of coffee, a dinner, a snack, see a movie ... or whatever.
Good luck! Looks like you are a nice, caring guy...

Once every couple years :P


And whoops, I did just realize that I wrote it like my name is Stephanie lol. But thanks for the advice, I'll wait and see how we get along after studying.
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Old 01-20-2012, 03:54 PM
 
Location: Chicago
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Once every couple years :P


And whoops, I did just realize that I wrote it like my name is Stephanie lol. But thanks for the advice, I'll wait and see how we get along after studying.
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Old 01-20-2012, 03:56 PM
 
Location: Houston, Tx
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1. You dial the number
2. You wait to hear ringing sound
3. You wait to hear persons voice
4. She says hello(or some other form of greeting)
5 You return greeting and identify yourself.
6. Make small talk.
7. Ask her to meet you for lunch in the cafeteria(or where ever you college people eat)

You owe me $20 for that by the way.
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Old 01-20-2012, 04:05 PM
 
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Well, the semester just started, and the first day I did what any guy does, look for the hot girls in the class Then I saw this girl walk in, and she was really really cute and then she started to sit down, kind of looked over at me and then sat behind me. She'd ask me questions here and there and I'd help her out a bit. The other day, I said whatever, and I went and sat next to her.. and we talked a lot and worked on an assignment. We stayed after class working on it blah blah, then my lab partner came and got me, so she realized I had to go.

We walked down the hall and when I got to my class I suggested we should start studying together and meet up some time. She smiled and said of course and gave me her number and I gave her mine. As she was walking away she said "oh I'm Stephanie" and I replied the same..

Anyways, I can tell pretty much that she's into me, but how long should I wait to ask her out on a date? Should I ask her to hang out after we've studied together once, or should I just try to talk to her in class more til she knows me better?
There's no romance, without finance. If she can't give you no assistance, she needs to keep her distance. In life, what is expensive seems valuable, and what's available for free seems worthless. If a woman can try you before she buy you, then, as B.B. King says, "The thrill is gone".
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Old 01-20-2012, 04:07 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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There's no romance, without finance. If she can't give you no assistance, she needs to keep her distance. In life, what is expensive seems valuable, and what's available for free seem worthless. If a woman can try you before she buy you, then, as B.B. King says, "The thrill is gone".

I'm sorry but I really don't understand what you're talking about


Either way, this girl is a solid 9, that's all the assistance I need
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Old 01-20-2012, 04:13 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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We walked down the hall and when I got to my class I suggested we should start studying together and meet up some time. She smiled and said of course and gave me her number and I gave her mine. As she was walking away she said "oh I'm Stephanie" and I replied the same..

Anyways, I can tell pretty much that she's into me, but how long should I wait to ask her out on a date? Should I ask her to hang out after we've studied together once, or should I just try to talk to her in class more til she knows me better?
Your name is Stephanie, too?? That's a cool icebreaker!! haha

Anyway, don't figure on a specific amount of time. Talk to her about fun stuff she likes to do and how her weekend went. At some point if she is in committed relationship she's going to bring it up. Example: "My boyfriend and I went hiking..." Otherwise, ask as it comes up if she would like to join you for miniature golf on a Friday night. Or hiking on a Saturday.

[or both]
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Old 01-20-2012, 04:15 PM
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play what?

just call the girl

but punch your parents in the face for naming you Stephanie before calling her
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