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It is only a recent phenomena - that started with the advent of public schooling - where both sexes of the same age..were exposed to each other..traditionally - a woman should be younger than the male...nothing sader than a guy who is 26 and pairs up^with another 26 year old female...by the time they are 50 - he may as well be living with his grand mother...woman age quicker near the end than men...Then they wonder why men cheat on a mate after 30 years...why should a man have to give up sex with he is older - just because his wife who is the same age and older...lost her need for it because of biology...
This post is one of the stupidest ones I've ever read in my life. Jeez I can't understand some people's way of thinking.
This post is one of the stupidest ones I've ever read in my life. Jeez I can't understand some people's way of thinking.
Well if they think like that I can imagine its a great libido killer for women everywhere of all ages. Only the young that happen to be dumb wouldn't mind.
So if you are not getting any...has to be the woman's fault...right?
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It is not that the male is a total turn off....not at all.*
During world war two - my father met my mother - she was 15 and he was over 30 - they married and had four children...so would you call my father a craddle robber? Was he a deviate? Personally I think not - this was typical in the by gone era...If a woman by nature can bare and RAISE childern in a responsible manner - age is not an issue - If a MAN is a good and kind man - why should he NOT have a young wife - that like good product lasts longer...My wife is 10 years younger- and already..she is fading - quicker by nature than a male...so what am I supposed to do? Give up on love and life and the joy of sex - because my mate has reacher her expirey date?
I have also seen men who marry a woman that is ten years older - it looks fine for a while - untill...the woman reaches a certain age - and then it's just plain un-natural - you have a young man with an old lady...who I am sure he will refere to as mum..in time..
During world war two - my father met my mother - she was 15 and he was over 30 - they married and had four children...so would you call my father a craddle robber? Was he a deviate? .
Okay - so ...in the thousand previous years where older men took younger wives - these millions upon millions of men were craddle robbers? AND that in this modern era - we are more evolved..and not dare want to be with a 20 year old when you are 35? ...The other personal historic story I have is about an old great uncle of mine that was a man of the church - he was 60..his wife died and he took on a 30 year old - They lived happily untill he died at 90...30 years together....I don't think that age should have anything to do with relationships - as long as the woman is of the age of concent - legal - and aware of what she is getting into - In the alternative - if a woman in your mind who is 55...and I know of one very attractive woman who is Spanish...who dates a 25 year old "for the sex" - how would you descrive this particular woman from a moral point of view?
This post is one of the stupidest ones I've ever read in my life. Jeez I can't understand some people's way of thinking.
I think that way and I do not think that way...I explore both alternatives...Just being honest - there are men - who have thoughts - but do not deploy those thoughts publically - so it's okay to think these things (younger wife) - but not to acutally say the things you think? I am sure there are thousands of good men who are loyal to their aging mates - who think "sure would be nice to get in bed with a fresh young vibrant woman" ----but they are to nice and to kind to vocalize such a thought - but it is there.
I see this alot the guys tend to be a bit immatute but as they say girls mature faster do maybe its a good match. I do agree with what another poster said the immaturity is very apparent in most 18 or 19 yo girls. Another thing people grow up and change so much betwen 18 and 21 or 22 and even more so in the next few years after that i dont see any of these relationships lasting. Its always interestng to watch too with these. Seems oike when the guy is older he goes to bars and stuff and then sees his younger gf after. Once the girl turns 21 this whole new social life opens up and the guy is done for
37 and I prefer 25 year olds, I don't care for women my age, I'm not financially set also so slot of older women don't really care for that but the biggest reason is younger women listen. I haven't seen a relationship that didn't start off at early 20s that's still successful. Older people usually fault as in reality it's a settling party.
Older you get means more partners, and men do question why a woman is always dating without marriage, it's a big red flag to most guys.
The only major difference I can see between 18-19-20-21 or so y/o gals and say 30+ year old gals is, the younger girls (at least in my own exp. anyway) tend to be a lot kinder, gentler, more unjaded, more open and flexible, less materialistic, and much (much!) less picky. They also tend to be more "innocent" (meant here in a good and in a postive way ), and less cold- and hard-hearted...
Not saying all older gals are "bad" either, not by a longshot...just what I have tended to personally observe about the differences in age ranges generally...
The only major difference I can see between 18-19-20-21 or so y/o gals and say 30+ year old gals is, the younger girls (at least in my own exp. anyway) tend to be a lot kinder, gentler, more unjaded, more open and flexible, less materialistic, and much (much!) less picky. They also tend to be more "innocent" (meant here in a good and in a postive way ), and less cold- and hard-hearted...
Not saying all older gals are "bad" either, not by a longshot...just what I have tended to personally observe about the differences in age ranges generally...
Most of them listen..... That's the age you go in there and build the house if you know what I mean. Most men don't want a career oriented single 30 year old who's too big to back down because she has money. This type of women is usually always single.
Men like submissive women.
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