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Yeah, I kind of noticed how the guy was the "jerk", maybe he just doesn't want to be in a serious relationship with the OP. I dont see what makes him so bad for not wanting to be with somone who, in his opinion dresses "too sexy".
Maybe he could have handled it a little better. But really, how do you tell someone, that they think that they look like a hoochie.
No offense to the OP.
That would require some serious tact on his part, I'm not even sure where someone would start with that topic.
After reviewing the profile I can see the guy being a jerk for dumping her if he was one of the Dukes of Hazard... I'll go out on a limb here and say he was being kind with his words when he said 'sexy' he really meant 'skanky.' There's a difference.
I looked at the profile pics as well, and I was actually gonna say, "Well you don't dress that poorly"... until I moved to the 'Halloween 2010' folder. Yikes!
1. How were you dressed when you FIRST met? ( because I see there IS a difference)
2. How were you dressed the last time you went out with him? ( possible picture?)
3. How were you dressed on dates (with him) in between??
4. How many times you went out with him.
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I think you need to add WHERE to the HOW in order to put it in true perspective.
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You read my mind, because that was going to be my next question...
Well let's consider her profile pics in more detail. One was taken at TGI Friday's. One was taken at a video arcade with her son. This is how she dresses in "family-friendly" settings. Then there's the Halloween pictures where she's basically wearing lingerie and literally has half her bare ass showing while out at a public bar. If her "outfit" were half a square inch smaller, she'd have been arrested. Opinions vary of course, but it's pretty clear to me the OP has little sense of propriety. Lots of people are ragging on the guy she went out with, but I can't blame him for taking a pass.
He sounds like an insecure, controlling douchebag- NEXT !!!!!!!!!
His loss.
How is he a controlling douche? He didn't ask or demand she change how she dresses. He told the truth about why he didn't want to see her anymore. For all the women on here who complain about men being liars, along comes one who tells the truth and now he's a douche and a loser? The truth is like the rain, it doesn't care who it falls on. Could he have been a little more delicate or PC, maybe, but then he probably wouldn't have been completely honest either.
It's obviously not his loss either since he's not the one posting about it on a public forum wondering what went wrong.
How is he a controlling douche? He didn't ask or demand she change how she dresses. He told the truth about why he didn't want to see her anymore. For all the women on here who complain about men being liars, along comes one who tells the truth and now he's a douche and a loser? The truth is like the rain, it doesn't care who it falls on. Could he have been a little more delicate or PC, maybe, but then he probably wouldn't have been completely honest either.
It's obviously not his loss either since he's not the one posting about it on a public forum wondering what went wrong.
I have to agree - a mother of now 11 year old son, should slowly settle down and show some class. She could still show off her great body, but let the guys guess a bit about it. A woman can look sexy and desirable, without looking cheap.
Now lets imagine: you have a date with a girl, you want to take her out to a nice restaurant, you look professional-casual... and you girl - hmmm... just like that. Are you still going to take her out to that restaurant?
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How is he a controlling douche? He didn't ask or demand she change how she dresses. He told the truth about why he didn't want to see her anymore. For all the women on here who complain about men being liars, along comes one who tells the truth and now he's a douche and a loser? The truth is like the rain, it doesn't care who it falls on. Could he have been a little more delicate or PC, maybe, but then he probably wouldn't have been completely honest either.
It's obviously not his loss either since he's not the one posting about it on a public forum wondering what went wrong.
I have to agree - a mother of now 11 year old son, should slowly settle down and show some class. She could still show off her great body, but let the guys guess a bit about it. A woman can look sexy and desirable, without looking cheap.
Now lets imagine: you have a date with a girl, you want to take her out to a nice restaurant, you look professional-casual... and you girl - hmmm... just like that. Are you still going to take her to that restaurant?
I have to agree - a mother of now 11 year old son, should slowly settle down and show some class. She could still show off her great body, but let the guys guess a bit about it. A woman can look sexy and desirable, without looking cheap.
Now lets imagine: you have a date with a girl, you want to take her out to a nice restaurant, you look professional-casual... and you girl - hmmm... just like that. Are you still going to take her out to that restaurant?
Yes...
Don't know why people make such a big deal out of what kind of cloth one chooses to cover themselves with.
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