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Old 01-28-2012, 01:29 PM
 
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...and then became attracted to her later?
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Old 01-28-2012, 01:34 PM
 
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I have. She was actually pursuing me though, which at the time I didn't recognize it because of what was happening in my life. About a month after my mom passing, I put it all together and started to talk to her more, and I took her on a date and got to know her. After that date I was attracted to her.
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Old 01-28-2012, 01:35 PM
 
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Yes, to a degree.
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Old 01-28-2012, 01:37 PM
 
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Yes, that has happened to me before, several times...
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Old 01-28-2012, 01:38 PM
 
Location: back in Boston
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Yes,and four months later,I was head over heels in love with her.
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Old 01-28-2012, 01:42 PM
 
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Yes.

To be fair, my sense of physical attraction is very broad and generous, so I consider most women of youthful age and decent shape to be 'potentially attractive' but...

I have met a few women who I have thought were OK or kinda cute but not remotely my type and then fallen heads over heels in love with them and thought they were extremely beautiful.

I think it's important to note that every such woman in this situation has rejected me.
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Old 01-28-2012, 01:46 PM
 
Location: Albuquerque, NM
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Yes.

I met her on a Greek island when I was surrounded by dozens of other bikini clad European women. She hardly stood out from the crowd.

After a few weeks of small talk in passing we had a chance to spend some longer time together.

Now, more than a year later, she's irresistable
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Old 01-28-2012, 01:48 PM
 
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Old 01-28-2012, 02:23 PM
 
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The answer is...kinda. One my first gfs, I definitely thought she was attractive when we first met, but we became friends, and also I'm not usually falling head-over-heels for a woman when I first see them anyway. One night we got to know each other, had a few drinks, and spent the next year-and-a-half together all the time.
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Old 01-28-2012, 02:28 PM
 
Location: Bellingham, WA
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Never.
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