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Old 11-21-2012, 03:04 AM
 
Location: NY
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and to go back to the previous post, the only females that do make the moves are the average ones.
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Old 11-21-2012, 02:51 PM
 
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I have learned one thing as a guy. If youre not a go-getter or the initiator, the seeker, then you wont be having much relations, if any at all.

Females dont generally approach males IMO, so if youre a guy that doesnt make the move or take initiatve, expect to be single for a long time.
That is right. Must like any other business.
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Old 11-21-2012, 03:03 PM
 
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Its a virtual guarantee I think.

If youre a guy that doesnt make moves, you will be single for a period of time.

Some women make moves, but to expect to be blown off your feet with one is extremely rare. The ones that do are the ones you dont want in the first place.
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Old 11-21-2012, 04:55 PM
 
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Be the man. Always.
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Old 11-21-2012, 05:03 PM
 
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The theory goes that most average men will be intimidated by the real gorgeous, supermodel types, and thus will approach women slightly less attractive to them because they feel they have a better chance. Average women will thus receive more attention and more crude solicitations for sex from men who feel entitled, and eventually become irritated or angry.
I'm average and I don't think that's true.

I will only get irritated if I'm approached by a man-pig. Otherwise I am nice, interested or not.
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Old 11-21-2012, 07:02 PM
 
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I believe a major mistake by a lot of men is not going after women attractive enough! Of course any middle-aged balding guy chasing a 22yo coed is going to get shot down. That being said, he needs to seriously address just what "league" he is in then chase after one above it all while being realistic. Do notice women often date one league down preferring to be the pea-**** in the relationship.

A man who marries believing he will never do better is truly a happy man. I like to extract life wisdom from older folks whenever I can and one thing older men who've been married for 40, 50, 60 years say about their wives are that they still can't believe she married him, that she actually said yes. Maybe the threat of ever losing such women constantly brings out the best in such men?
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Old 11-22-2012, 07:54 AM
 
Location: Bangkok, NYC, and LV
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Yes.. hot girls are harder to get involved with because they're approached by many different guys all the time. Perhaps the dumbest thing I've ever heard is the "hot girls aren't approached because so many guys are afraid", what a joke that is. Hot women are approached all the time by guys everywhere. I see it from my friends and the girls I date. Wherever they go, guys offer them help, chat them up talk to them. Hot women always have a choice from guys.
So true!

Beautiful women have doors opened to them that most of us do not realize because we are not beautiful.



A hot woman with average judgement can get whatever she wants if she is willing to use her beauty--not necessarily her body--to achieve it.
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Old 11-22-2012, 08:11 AM
 
Location: Bangkok, NYC, and LV
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There are definitely 3 categories or "leagues" of women:

Super attractive women
Average women
Unattractive women

Super attractive women tend to be the most likely to reject a guy, but average looking women tend to be meaner and more ego-crushing when giving rejections. So i guess it sort of evens out.

Obviously i don't go after unattractive women, because what's the point? But i would imagine these women have somewhat limited options and are easier to win over. It's another tragic irony of life-- the only attainable women are the ones who the guy has no interest in.
That's so true! really hot girls are used to rejecting people that they know how to do it in a benign way..a dismissive smile often coupled with a generic anodyne compliment. It does not make them happy to dump on you because you are not that important to them. OTH, average women seem to take glee in rejecting a man.
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