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I dunno.......while that is somewhat different from open relationships/swinging, it's also something I have never been on board with.
I have absolutely no problem with your not being on board with it. You do what you want to do.
It is the insistence that yours is the "universal" way to look at marriage that I think wildly incorrect. There are people, myself and my husband included, who are happy, mentally and physically healthy, raising terrific kids, who don't look at it that way. How is this bad?
Maybe perhaps not you... but others here on the board have tried to call out our morals and degrade the relationships we have.
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Just as I am sexually attracted to my husband and my other.
I am attracted to a lot of women - I just can't/won't have an "other." Partly because if I did, she would be hurt/angry/jealous, and partly because if she did, I'd be homicidal.
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Why does that mean something is wrong with me?
I can't understand it, but I don't want you to feel bad because of how you live your life. That is how I am with gay relationships as well. Not for me, I can't understand it, but I'm not going to degrade you because of who you choose to love.
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Just to lighten up the mood a bit... with your username and all, I can only give you this advice when enjoying your multitude of women (of which there is nothing wrong with, nor would I consider you a wh-star'd for it):
In our 7, I guess 8 years now in the lifestyle, I've personally known only two couples that broke up, neither was because of lifestyle issues, and one of the two were only dating, and relatively new at that. It's anecdotal, but it does seem that couples who play together, stay together.
I take it by the emoticon you got what I was referring to?
Yes. Scary, truly scary.
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