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View Poll Results: Which is not considered sexual abuse?
Force you to have sex. 0 0%
Criticise your sexual performance. 7 25.93%
Force you to do sex acts you don't like. 0 0%
Deny you sex. 10 37.04%
None of the above. 10 37.04%
Voters: 27. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 02-01-2012, 11:20 AM
 
Location: Holiday, FL
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Which of the choices IS NOT considered sexual abuse?

1. Forcing you to have sex
2. Criticise your sexual performance.
3. Force you to do sex acts you don't like.
4. Deny you sex.
5. none of the above.
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Old 02-01-2012, 11:25 AM
 
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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Force of any kind is abuse. Withholding is misuse. Criticizing one's performance is just plain ignorant.
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Old 02-01-2012, 11:25 AM
 
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2 and 4?

Instance 2 when taken to the extreme could be a case of verbal abuse, I guess, but not sexual abuse.
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Old 02-01-2012, 11:28 AM
 
Location: Massachusetts
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Force of any kind is abuse. Withholding is misuse. Criticizing one's performance is just plain ignorant.
Ditto
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Old 02-01-2012, 11:28 AM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Force of any kind is abuse. Withholding is misuse. Criticizing one's performance is just plain ignorant.
Agreed on all counts!
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Old 02-01-2012, 11:32 AM
 
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Which of the choices IS NOT considered sexual abuse?

1. Forcing you to have sex
2. Criticise your sexual performance.
3. Force you to do sex acts you don't like.
4. Deny you sex.
5. none of the above.
#2 and #4, I'd categorize as mental and/or emotional abuse.
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Old 02-01-2012, 11:33 AM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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Which of the choices IS NOT considered sexual abuse?

1. Forcing you to have sex
2. Criticise your sexual performance.
3. Force you to do sex acts you don't like.
4. Deny you sex.
5. none of the above.
Is this a real question? You really don't know the answers already?

Being critical of a partners performance is not smart and can be mean, but it is NOT sexual abuse.

Denying a partner sex is also not smart and can be mean and manipulative, but it is NOT sexual abuse.

Your "poll" didn't allow for choosing more than one answer, so I could not participate.
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Old 02-01-2012, 11:33 AM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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You can't really vote in this poll because you can only vote for one choice - and there are two correct options, in my opinion.
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Old 02-01-2012, 11:49 AM
 
Location: Holiday, FL
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You can't really vote in this poll because you can only vote for one choice - and there are two correct options, in my opinion.
Actually, according to the sheriff's office, Pasco County, Florida, the only correct answer is 5. All four of the first 4 choices come under the heading of sexual abuse.

Domestic Violence

And, it comes under the heading of domestic violence.
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Old 02-01-2012, 11:52 AM
 
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Actually, according to the sheriff's office, Pasco County, Florida, the only correct answer is 5. All four of the first 4 choices come under the heading of sexual abuse.

Domestic Violence

And, it comes under the heading of domestic violence.
That could just be because they have to do with the general topic of sex.
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