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Old 04-05-2012, 09:21 AM
 
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i went to see an escort while drunk and overseas a number of years ago , the guilt i felt about it afterwards was overwhelming and it wasnt in the least bit enjoyable either , utterly cold and mechanical , i think its a disgusting thing to do and corrupts all parties involved , i see nothing wrong with remaining a virgin for your entire life if you have some reason for not being able to hook up in the conventional sense , when you pay for sex , a part of you dies inside

 
Old 04-05-2012, 09:42 AM
 
Location: USA
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wow! would anyone mind telling him how to
better develop his social skills so he can get
sex for free without having to resort to an
escort lol?
 
Old 04-05-2012, 12:08 PM
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Location: Riverside county
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Wow, still nobody's actually helping you get laid. All you have to do is lower your standards to achieve this one specific goal. All that development of your dating, speaking, and mingling skills is great, but you're gonna want to save that stuff for someone actually special. Take a close buddy of yours to any local happy hour, preferably $1 taco Tuesday (don't go broke). Have a few rounds with your friend be confident, look like you're enjoying yourself all the while checking out your surroundings. Whichever one keeps giving you that eye contact and smile, you go for the kill. You do this a cple times a week make sure not to committ to any and after awhile you'll have a few ladies in your black book and something's Bound to happen. For Free!!!
 
Old 04-05-2012, 12:44 PM
 
Location: Between Heaven And Hell.
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Originally Posted by irish_bob View Post
i went to see an escort while drunk and overseas a number of years ago , the guilt i felt about it afterwards was overwhelming and it wasnt in the least bit enjoyable either , utterly cold and mechanical , i think its a disgusting thing to do and corrupts all parties involved , i see nothing wrong with remaining a virgin for your entire life if you have some reason for not being able to hook up in the conventional sense , when you pay for sex , a part of you dies inside
I've never paid for it, but I believe you are right.
 
Old 04-05-2012, 01:44 PM
 
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Originally Posted by irish_bob View Post
i went to see an escort while drunk and overseas a number of years ago , the guilt i felt about it afterwards was overwhelming and it wasnt in the least bit enjoyable either , utterly cold and mechanical , i think its a disgusting thing to do and corrupts all parties involved , i see nothing wrong with remaining a virgin for your entire life if you have some reason for not being able to hook up in the conventional sense , when you pay for sex , a part of you dies inside
You make a good point. Unfortunately are sex drives are biological meaning that guys desire sex even when they may not want a relationship or are unable to have a relationship. For people like this life would be easier if they were asexual.
 
Old 04-05-2012, 04:07 PM
 
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Prostitution should be legalized.
The reason sex for hire (and marijuana) will NEVER be legalized, is because... THE GOVERNMENT HAS NO WAY OF CONTROLLING THEM.
 
Old 04-11-2012, 12:52 PM
 
Location: Los Angeles
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i went to see an escort while drunk and overseas a number of years ago , the guilt i felt about it afterwards was overwhelming and it wasnt in the least bit enjoyable either , utterly cold and mechanical , i think its a disgusting thing to do and corrupts all parties involved , i see nothing wrong with remaining a virgin for your entire life if you have some reason for not being able to hook up in the conventional sense , when you pay for sex , a part of you dies inside
For me, it was a great relief and also gave me another reason to finally enjoy life.

However, I do worry about becoming addicted and also coming face to face with the dark side of the hobby .
 
Old 04-11-2012, 12:54 PM
 
Location: Los Angeles
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I'm no lawyer, but as I understand it, it's still illegal to get paid or to make payments for sex under any circumstances (except in NV). So yes, it's illegal, and it's considered prostitution.

However, I think escorts are able to get around it because it's technically a paid 'date' and the money can be used to, uh, pay to 'drink champagne' together or whatever. Even so, I think someone can still be charged for sex with an escort if it's clear that the express purpose is sex, which is probably not that hard to prove.
In California, it's soliciting the act that's illegal and how they bust both customers and prostitutes, or "lewd acts" if the act is in a car or public place. Rarely hear of anyone getting in any trouble for the actual act itself if it's being performed in a private place.
 
Old 04-11-2012, 03:57 PM
 
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wow! would anyone mind telling him how to
better develop his social skills so he can get
sex for free without having to resort to an
escort lol?
Technically, a man will pay for sex in one way or the other anyways if you think about it. One way is illegal and society gives it a frowny face. The other one is legal and is considered tradition, chivalry, a man's job/role, initial stages, courtship, romance, etc. A bit different if we're talking about a girl who ALSO takes you out and doesn't just accept your invitations and offers her company (and sex).
 
Old 04-11-2012, 05:07 PM
 
Location: USA
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I think it was George Carlin that said, men that hire prostitutes aren't paying them to have sex, they're paying them to leave afterwards.
Ive tried paying women to leave "It doesn't work"
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