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Ive been dating a girl off and on for 2 years. The off times were after ahe broke up with me. Except one time. I really deserved it. However, every time she breaks up with me she then gets upset that i try moving on. So she doesnt let me move on. She is jealous that i may have someone to spend time with or talk to. She holds onto one particular girl. She asked me not speak to this girl and we got back together. Even though i dont speak to this girl anymore and she was deleted from my FB and all she continues to get upset if i even remotely speak to someone. Just a casual convo on FB causes problems. However, she txts and FB friends. The other day she stopped over at her guy friends house at 1130 at night. She only told me afterwards that she did this. She swears nothing happened. And i kinda believe her. Only because she is the type to tell me she did just to see the look of pain on my face. She did his though after she clearly told be 2 weeks prior that she didnt want me meeting any girl anywhere. and she told me this because i called her out on hanging with another guy on a different day. She walks off on me when we argue but expects me to hear what she has to say. She gets on her phone when we argue and answers txts and what not. She says she cant trust me for certain things ive done in the past. Although i havent slept with anyone i have at time been excessively flirty with some girls and she knows this and says she cant trust me because of it. Ive told her many times that i understand it but it isnt fair to methat she hold all that against me when she has slep with someone else and that i have my reasons for having my doubts also. Ive told her that the same reasons she has for not trusting me i have also but she keeps saying that her actions are in the past and makes me feel as if im wrong for feeling the way i do. I think you get the picture. What do i do?
I would get as far away from her as possible. You have no relationship with her and never will. She seems like an arrogant ***** that cares nothing about anyone, only herself. GET AWAY FROM HER.
I would run away. seriously, I dont know how old you are, but you sound young. if you do stay with her and both of you get old, and she doesnt change, you would want to leave. you might listen to her becasue she is young now, once you loose affection for her because of her lack of looks, you will have no reason to stay with her.
She might of believed you couldn't find someone else when she's not with you, but when you do she wants you back. When she's with you she treats you like dirt, it's a cycle for narcissists. The fact that you can be happy with other women makes her crazy so she's trying to control you even when you were broken up.
Yeah, I agree with the other two... get rid of her, and watch yourself for the next couple months.
I agree with the previous posters. She seems like bad news any way you look at it, and you'd be better off without her in your life whatsoever.
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