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No, they DO know, sometimes they just have no proof.
And it is wrong on your part. You are trying to justify it by saying that it's his choice. Well he's not forcing you...it's your choice too.
Yeah, yeah...if not you then someone else. Well then let it be someone else.
And you had better look into alienation of affection laws for your area because you CAN be held responsible.
Can you not attract a single guy?
why should i not act on my desires and let someone else and yes i do attract single guys too but when i first met this man i didn't know he was married until the attraction already settled .. so that's not my fault!
and if he loses half of his assets and much more and ruins his own life that's his fault for cheating on his wife! i'm not forcing him or even initiating anything ... he's doing this to himself so if he wants to do that that is his decisions!!
Wrong. You're helping him. You're accepting his advances like a puppet and playing along. It's your fault for not stopping it. It's your body, not his.
why should i not act on my desires and let someone else and yes i do attract single guys too but when i first met this man i didn't know he was married until the attraction already settled .. so that's not my fault!
Gosh how tiresome... So act on your desires! What's stopping you? Give him your card or your phone number and he'll call if he's interested. Have fun, suffer, be bored. Whatever.
why should i not act on my desires and let someone else and yes i do attract single guys too but when i first met this man i didn't know he was married until the attraction already settled .. so that's not my fault!
It's partly your fault if you act on it.
I'm curious why you even posted here? You aren't looking for advice, you've already got your mind made up that he's the only one in the wrong and you aren't doing anything hurtful...so what were you looking for? A pat on the back?
Ya know, I really don't know why you started this thread. Are you looking for validation and pats on the back and people saying 'you go girl'? You already know your going to give up the goods to this guy so why even tell anybody? Just do it.
Yes, I don't get this either. I'm sure if the OP did a search there are probably forums where single people hookup with married people and she would get all the "validation" and "praise" she needed.
I can't co-sign the married man thing.
Years ago, when I was naive and didn't know better I dealt with men who were living or married to other women, but I wasn't aware until later.
When I did find out I felt DECEIVED and was so angry. Besides the man being a major scumbag, you can get crazy wives/girlfriends that will want to do harm to YOU while giving her sleaze man a "pass". There is just too much drama and bad karma dealing with relationships like these.
I will never co-sign something like this, especially if there are children involved.
Either that or he's desperate for a different flavor and he knows she is just desperate.
No I'm not desperate at all I can get whatever I want .. and what I want I get! I can't help it that he is willing to cheat on his wife .. that's his choice. And my bad for overlooking it!
And yea it's just something fun .. no one's heart is getting broken and no one is losing here we're all winning
why should i not act on my desires and let someone else and yes i do attract single guys too but when i first met this man i didn't know he was married until the attraction already settled .. so that's not my fault!
Go ahead. Justify.
But you now know he's married.
Remember, karma.
Do what you want, but remember, he'll tire of you and either return to his wife, or trade up. There's always someone younger, prettier, etc. out there for the married (or single) man.
Wrong. You're helping him. You're accepting his advances like a puppet and playing along. It's your fault for not stopping it. It's your body, not his.
oh, but it's about to be his body ;-) .. yes we're both wrong but if he didn't put it out there then I wouldn't be going after him. If a man chooses to cheat on his wife I'm not going to stop him!
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