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I met this man a few months ago at my job. I work at a hotel and he works out of town..which brings him to my hotel 3-4 days out of most weeks. He is quite older than me .. almost 20 years older than me, which is absolutely fine with me .. I love older men! Since the day I met him, I was attracted to him but never thought anything more about it. He always flirts with me, sometimes more indirectly than other times, but the more and more I see him the more upfront he is about things. The other guys that come along with him have openly told me things like "they know what is going on between the two of us" etc..however there is nothing going on between us right now other than a friendship and an attraction. This leads me to believe that they all talk about the situation and the more and more it goes on I don't think it's a joke I think he's really in to me. He is such a fun person I love talking with him, he's constantly making me laugh. I feel like we have such a good connection. So he flirts with me and makes suggestive jokes or he'll twist my words to make it seem like I'm saying something dirty... and this has gone on for a few weeks and has gotten more intense. So he's putting it out there but hasn't actually tried to take it to the next level, but I get the feeling he wants to.
Any tips on how I can be sure he wants to go further without making anything awkward. This is my biggest fantasy and everything I enjoy .. sneaking around and being bad makes everything so much fun
I know it's wrong to have a relationship with a married man, however if he is unhappy with his marriage and feels he wants to step out on his wife I feel that it's his decision. Obviously I would never force him to do anything, but it's pretty clear to me he's putting it out there.
This is all I have been thinking about for a few weeks since he has been flirting with me more openly and especially since his coworkers have been suggesting something is going on between us .. why not make everyone's thoughts/dreams reality?
No worries. Go ahead and do whatever it is you want to with him...just remember that when you get married some time in the future...some other younger lady will have no qualms screwing your husband...after all, he may very well be unhappy with you and its not like she'll be forcing him...you know?
Yoou gotta be kidding me! You don't give a %#$@ about sleeping with a married man? All I gotta say is what goes around comes around. Look after your job, I doubt your boss would be thrilled that you are sneeking around with one of their "loyal" customers.
Get some morals and some self worth because you must lacking both to want to get another woman's sloppy seconds.
So you are single and you want to date a married man??? Why??
He will never be able to offer you anything close to a real relationship and no matter what he says, he'd be using you. Why would you want that for yourself???
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Originally Posted by princessx069
I met this man a few months ago at my job. I work at a hotel and he works out of town..which brings him to my hotel 3-4 days out of most weeks. He is quite older than me .. almost 20 years older than me, which is absolutely fine with me .. I love older men! Since the day I met him, I was attracted to him but never thought anything more about it. He always flirts with me, sometimes more indirectly than other times, but the more and more I see him the more upfront he is about things. The other guys that come along with him have openly told me things like "they know what is going on between the two of us" etc..however there is nothing going on between us right now other than a friendship and an attraction. This leads me to believe that they all talk about the situation and the more and more it goes on I don't think it's a joke I think he's really in to me. He is such a fun person I love talking with him, he's constantly making me laugh. I feel like we have such a good connection. So he flirts with me and makes suggestive jokes or he'll twist my words to make it seem like I'm saying something dirty... and this has gone on for a few weeks and has gotten more intense. So he's putting it out there but hasn't actually tried to take it to the next level, but I get the feeling he wants to.
Any tips on how I can be sure he wants to go further without making anything awkward. This is my biggest fantasy and everything I enjoy .. sneaking around and being bad makes everything so much fun
I know it's wrong to have a relationship with a married man, however if he is unhappy with his marriage and feels he wants to step out on his wife I feel that it's his decision. Obviously I would never force him to do anything, but it's pretty clear to me he's putting it out there.
This is all I have been thinking about for a few weeks since he has been flirting with me more openly and especially since his coworkers have been suggesting something is going on between us .. why not make everyone's thoughts/dreams reality?
This has GOT to be a joke. Just in case it aint, this will end up nothing but bad for the OP if she pursues it.
Last edited by The Dissenter; 02-05-2012 at 07:34 PM..
So what if I said he's not married he's just a single older guy flirting with me .. what would you all tell me to do ? Nothing wrong with having some fun right?
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