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Old 09-05-2012, 04:54 AM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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Not an uncommon situation and something that has happened to me.

Here is the scenario you are in :


You invite a girl/woman to your place. Spur of the moment thing. She accepts.
You don't know her that well. You talk for abit, maybe have a drink or two.
There is a connection and chemistry for both parties. You start making out abit.....but then you realise you are out of condoms.
Its late and a long drive to the nearest open store. She says she is on the pill.

How do you proceed?
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Old 09-05-2012, 05:56 AM
 
Location: Atlanta & NYC
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Pull out!
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Old 09-05-2012, 06:13 AM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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I threw this question to my roommate since he ain't a virgin like I am and he says "don't proceed."

My POV: I think Furious Styles said it best in Boyz N The Hood. "If she says she is on the pill use something anyway. A pill isnt going to keep your _____ from falling off."
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Old 09-05-2012, 06:19 AM
 
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Remember the rule: "Wrap it up, before you Slap it Up!"
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Old 09-05-2012, 06:22 AM
 
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"If she says she is on the pill use something anyway. A pill isnt going to keep your _____ from falling off."
Okay, not male...but definitely this ^^^
I could see maybe not using something if you knew her really, really well. But you said you don't know her that well.
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Old 09-05-2012, 06:28 AM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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I agree with the don't proceed. Thats what I did. Its a MASSIVE let down. Such is life sometimes.......
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Old 09-05-2012, 06:31 AM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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I agree with the don't proceed. Thats what I did. Its a MASSIVE let down. Such is life sometimes.......
Better a letdown than AIDS or the clap which can put you down or a baby which will keep you down.
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Old 09-05-2012, 06:36 AM
 
Location: DFW
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I would learn a lesson that I would never run out of condoms. They're cheap and you can buy them in bulk. Real men are like Scouts... Br Prepared and Plan ahead.

But if I thought I needed a condom, I would do everything but penetration. I'd pull out my trusty magic wand and give her the enjoyment of her life and with plenty of oral stimulation make sure she had the best non penetration sex ever and wanted to come back for more. Prolonged mutual masturbation and oral can be fun and enjoyable for all parties.

Last edited by Rakin; 09-05-2012 at 07:20 AM..
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Old 09-05-2012, 06:39 AM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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Better a letdown than AIDS or the clap which can put you down or a baby which will keep you down.


Yep....a little off topic, but check this out :

List of countries by HIV/AIDS adult prevalence rate - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia


Shows the aids/hiv rate country by country. I did not know it was that low in my country. Also very low in the US. Sickening how high it is in some of the African nations.
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Old 09-05-2012, 06:53 AM
 
Location: NY
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So many red flags! Time to stop in that situation, and plan ahead better for the future!
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