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That's fear and I can smell it a mile away so no sense in denying it.
You fear that if you leave, you might be making the wrong decision and then how do you take it back if that's the case. Would she take you back? Would it pain you to see her completely happy with someone else.
You fear not finding anyone out there that might be a better choice for you. That maybe this is all there is in life for you.
You fear the unknown. At least now you know what your struggles are with your relationship, you don't know what you will face out there, and if it will be better (you hope) but being in such a crappy relationship has "taught" you to expect the worst.
That's fear and I can smell it a mile away so no sense in denying it.
You fear that if you leave, you might be making the wrong decision and then how do you take it back if that's the case. Would she take you back? Would it pain you to see her completely happy with someone else.
You fear not finding anyone out there that might be a better choice for you. That maybe this is all there is in life for you.
You fear the unknown. At least now you know what your struggles are with your relationship, you don't know what you will face out there, and if it will be better (you hope) but being in such a crappy relationship has "taught" you to expect the worst.
Am I close here???
Nope it's not fear like that,I've had all that before this relationship...
If I do it I know it'll be the right decision and I'm not concerned with her taking me back,we've been down this road many times.
And I don't fear finding someone else,at this point it'd be best to be alone for awhile or light dating at most.
I feel guilty as I head towards the door and she turns on the tears,I think it must be a mental thing...she doesn't realize what she's done until it's nearly too late^
Boy does she have you figured out, quit being such a whiny baby and change your situation if you are really that unhappy.
That would be Mrs. Compassion and you are welcome.
Obviously I have no sympathy for those who whine about a situation with a relationship and do nothing to correct it and make themselves happy. If you are truly that unhappy and she is as well and you are aware of it just end the relationship and move on. No children together ties to hold you back just your own insecurities it appears.
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