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PLEASE leave scumbag husband comments for someone else. I am looking for opinions. Anyways, a couple of months back I noticed an attractive girl looking at me at my local gym. It has happened on several occasions where I felt someone looking at me and its always her from a distance. One day she started working out next to me and I looked over at her right in the eyes and smiled. She gave me a big smile back. From then on I can't get her out of my head. We played the starring game for about a month until last week I got the nerve to go talk to her and introduced myself. I am married in my early 30s with 2 young daughters and I am guessing she is in her mid 20s. My marriage has been going through some rough times lately and I have been feeling pretty lonely. Maybe this is just a way of escaping my problems. Anyways I imagine that there are people who have run into similar situations out there. What do you think will happen if I pursue this girl? Right now I am very tempted to as bad as that may sound. Thanks!
PLEASE leave scumbag husband comments for someone else. I am looking for opinions. Anyways, a couple of months back I noticed an attractive girl looking at me at my local gym. It has happened on several occasions where I felt someone looking at me and its always her from a distance. One day she started working out next to me and I looked over at her right in the eyes and smiled. She gave me a big smile back. From then on I can't get her out of my head. We played the starring game for about a month until last week I got the nerve to go talk to her and introduced myself. I am married in my early 30s with 2 young daughters and I am guessing she is in her mid 20s. My marriage has been going through some rough times lately and I have been feeling pretty lonely. Maybe this is just a way of escaping my problems. Anyways I imagine that there are people who have run into similar situations out there. What do you think will happen if I pursue this girl? Right now I am very tempted to as bad as that may sound. Thanks!
There will always be temptations in your life. ALWAYS.
As a husband and a father of two young girls, however, it's your job (and your wife's job) to be a guardian of the family you have. Smiling back at the hot girl at the gym is not part of that.
Adding a relationship to your life does not relieve stress. It doesn't even actually distract you from stress. It ADDS stress.
You could start making out with this girl in your car or maybe even get a motel room. Or maybe she is single and has her own place. Woo! How exciting! But there is nothing that will slam you back to reality quicker than finding out one of her neighbors works on your jobsite, or running into the receptionist from your wife's office while you're going into the motel with her.
Just save yourself the time and trouble and keep your head down while you work out. If you don't want to fall off the cliff, don't walk close to the edge. Really try to work on what's going on at home.
PLEASE leave scumbag husband comments for someone else. I am looking for opinions. Anyways, a couple of months back I noticed an attractive girl looking at me at my local gym. It has happened on several occasions where I felt someone looking at me and its always her from a distance. One day she started working out next to me and I looked over at her right in the eyes and smiled. She gave me a big smile back. From then on I can't get her out of my head. We played the starring game for about a month until last week I got the nerve to go talk to her and introduced myself. I am married in my early 30s with 2 young daughters and I am guessing she is in her mid 20s. My marriage has been going through some rough times lately and I have been feeling pretty lonely. Maybe this is just a way of escaping my problems. Anyways I imagine that there are people who have run into similar situations out there. What do you think will happen if I pursue this girl? Right now I am very tempted to as bad as that may sound. Thanks!
Take the time and energy you would be using to pursue this girl and put it into your marriage then you won't actually be a scumbag husband.
I just now got your screen name: Eye-duh-hoe
Just a play on "I duh ho"...very clever!
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We played the starring game for about a month until last week I got the nerve to go talk to her and introduced myself. I am married in my early 30s with 2 young daughters and I am guessing she is in her mid 20s. My marriage has been going through some rough times lately and I have been feeling pretty lonely. Maybe this is just a way of escaping my problems. Anyways I imagine that there are people who have run into similar situations out there. What do you think will happen if I pursue this girl? Right now I am very tempted to as bad as that may sound. Thanks!
