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Old 02-21-2012, 08:02 PM
 
Location: Back in the gym...Yo Adrian!
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Sounds like you were looking for a reason to end it prior to all this, turns out he gave you several seasons to push you over the edge. You are better off without him.
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Old 02-21-2012, 08:13 PM
 
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I'd like to hear more details. Like, you know for a fact that he was alive and well? Just want to hear a blow by blow. Plus, how did you dump him, and did you tell him why???
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Old 02-21-2012, 08:15 PM
 
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I'd like to hear more details. Like, you know for a fact that he was alive and well? Just want to hear a blow by blow. Plus, how did you dump him, and did you tell him why???

Blow by blow? I thought she was mad at him.......unless this was some make up action
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Old 02-21-2012, 09:15 PM
 
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I'd like to hear more details. Like, you know for a fact that he was alive and well? Just want to hear a blow by blow. Plus, how did you dump him, and did you tell him why???
Yes he was and is alive and well.
He finally called while on his way to work saying Hey what's up, why didn't you call me? I explained that I was sick with a cold and my doc gave me another week off from work.he was silent, then he said I thought you went to work today, I responded that had he checked up on me he would've known that I didn't. He got defensive and started rambling about how he has to make the move to call, blah blah blah then he hung up saying that he didn't want to argue. I never even mentioned Vday and how I felt.

I dumped him via text after he hung up on me (my stitches were still fresh and I did not want them to rip from yelling anger) in the text I simply said "Do yourself a favor and just lose my number. It's clear that you aren't the man for me and I'm not the woman for you." I haven't heard from him since. Not for my bday the next day, nothing.

I'm still angry about the situation..this is a man claimed to be in love with me.
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Old 02-21-2012, 09:25 PM
 
Location: Pawnee Nation
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I don't blame you.........

A few years ago my partner had a mastectomy on Valentines Day. Not only did I not get a nice steak dinner and a little lovin, but I spoon fed her some soup for dinner. She blew right through V day like it wasn't even there. If she misses another hallmark greeting card holiday I am not going to take this spoon feeding crap and let her know right up front how important a box of overpriced chocolate is...........
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Old 02-21-2012, 09:33 PM
 
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how do you figure you did the dumping? sounds to me like he dumped you first-no?
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Old 02-21-2012, 09:37 PM
 
Location: Ostend,Belgium....
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either way, it wasn't gonna work out between the OP and the guy...? so best to call it quits before more heartache comes along.
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Old 02-21-2012, 09:46 PM
 
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You did the right thing. Happy belated!
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Old 02-21-2012, 10:16 PM
 
Location: where people are either too stupid to leave or too stuck to move
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i would have got some valentines day chocolate , heat it up and threw it around his bathroom.. lmfao just kidding, he may think its real (poo) and have me arrested
wait can you get arrested for that?
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Old 02-21-2012, 10:29 PM
 
Location: Michigan
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was I wrong for that?

Here's the story..I've been dating him since Oct after we reconnected (I've known him for quite some time). I had minor surgery the week before Valentine's day plus I ended up catching a nasty cold. I was just completely miserable, down and out. Valentine's day came around and he did absolutely NOTHING for me..not even a phone call or text message (to even check up on me) and to make matters worse, my birthday was the next day. I was extremely crushed and livid. He never had an explanation for me so I just ended everything..

You did great! Don't give it a second thought, he's not worth it, move on.
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