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Old 02-22-2012, 09:10 PM
 
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Is it just the timing of meeting a guy who happens to want a relationship at the time he meets a woman or is there something a woman does that makes a guy only reduce her to booty call status instead of pursuing a relationship? Not sure if that question makes sense to you but ya..I was wondering..
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Old 02-22-2012, 09:12 PM
 
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For me, she'd have to tell me she'd want a FWB/booty call relationship.

But I've never really pursued one. Only was interested in relationships.
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Old 02-22-2012, 09:17 PM
 
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ok..that makes sense to me!
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Old 02-22-2012, 09:20 PM
 
Location: Mammoth Lakes, CA
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Many men are interested in relationships and not just booty calls. You won't find many admitting to that here, but this is a highly skewed segment of society. Most guys I know don't have one night stands and don't pursue them. And most girls/women I know aren't interested in just being a booty call.
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Old 02-22-2012, 09:22 PM
 
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Most women can be a booty call if they want, that's why you can't be studs. Unless you're more attractive than the women he can get nsa sex from, you probably won't get a relationship. If you want a relationship, be loyal and don't play games. Go for a guy that's the same way.
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Old 02-22-2012, 09:23 PM
 
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ok..that makes sense to me!
Well, I think for men, either they're interested in a relationship, or they just want what's between your legs. It can also vary on where they are in there life.

You probably have to ask the right questions to get the answers you want.
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Old 02-22-2012, 09:24 PM
 
Location: SWUS
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I'd also have to be informed if it was a friends with benefits/booty call only sorta deal.

As far as the difference between girlfriend and hookup, I'd have to say that a total lack of anything between the ears, lack of responsibility, or lack of ambition would pretty much kill it for me. Someone I want to talk to and enjoy being around for extended amounts of time vs. someone I'll only be around for a few hours at a time, and won't hear them talk much if at all.

I'm not really into the hookup/one-nighter thing though. I've always found the idea to be a turnoff, and so I don't pursue them.
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Old 02-22-2012, 09:27 PM
 
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Most women can be a booty call if they want, that's why you can't be studs. Unless you're more attractive than the women he can get nsa sex from, you probably won't get a relationship. If you want a relationship, be loyal and don't play games. Go for a guy that's the same way.
what do you mean women can't be studs? lol

um, I am loyal and don't play games..life's too short.
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Old 02-22-2012, 09:31 PM
 
Location: Pa
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A woman you don't mind mom and dad along with the family to meet. Or a woman that is great for bumping uglies but bores the hell out of you.
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Old 02-22-2012, 09:32 PM
 
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I'd also have to be informed if it was a friends with benefits/booty call only sorta deal.

As far as the difference between girlfriend and hookup, I'd have to say that a total lack of anything between the ears, lack of responsibility, or lack of ambition would pretty much kill it for me. Someone I want to talk to and enjoy being around for extended amounts of time vs. someone I'll only be around for a few hours at a time, and won't hear them talk much if at all.

I'm not really into the hookup/one-nighter thing though. I've always found the idea to be a turnoff, and so I don't pursue them.
could a girl ever behave in such a way that even though initially you were thinking of a relationship..that she could change your mind into just wanting casual sex?
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