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Old 02-21-2012, 07:14 PM
 
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was I wrong for that?

Here's the story..I've been dating him since Oct after we reconnected (I've known him for quite some time). I had minor surgery the week before Valentine's day plus I ended up catching a nasty cold. I was just completely miserable, down and out. Valentine's day came around and he did absolutely NOTHING for me..not even a phone call or text message (to even check up on me) and to make matters worse, my birthday was the next day. I was extremely crushed and livid. He never had an explanation for me so I just ended everything..
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Old 02-21-2012, 07:16 PM
 
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Nope!! NEXT
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Old 02-21-2012, 07:22 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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was I wrong for that?

Here's the story..I've been dating him since Oct after we reconnected (I've known him for quite some time). I had minor surgery the week before Valentine's day plus I ended up catching a nasty cold. I was just completely miserable, down and out. Valentine's day came around and he did absolutely NOTHING for me..not even a phone call or text message (to even check up on me) and to make matters worse, my birthday was the next day. I was extremely crushed and livid. He never had an explanation for me so I just ended everything..
Can't blame you.
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Old 02-21-2012, 07:36 PM
 
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was I wrong for that?

Here's the story..I've been dating him since Oct after we reconnected (I've known him for quite some time). I had minor surgery the week before Valentine's day plus I ended up catching a nasty cold. I was just completely miserable, down and out. Valentine's day came around and he did absolutely NOTHING for me..not even a phone call or text message (to even check up on me) and to make matters worse, my birthday was the next day. I was extremely crushed and livid. He never had an explanation for me so I just ended everything..
Ouch! Sounds like he lost that loving feeling and you were right to officially end things. Sorry
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Old 02-21-2012, 07:38 PM
 
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Sounds like when your married.....
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Old 02-21-2012, 07:43 PM
 
Location: Albuquerque, NM
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Lame. I dislike it when people hate V-Day and use the excuse of it being a moneymaking corporate holiday to not do anything. It doesn't need to be! There's nothing wrong with doing a little extra to show your lady (or man) how much you care about her. Good decision moving on.
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Old 02-21-2012, 07:44 PM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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Lame. I dislike it when people hate V-Day and use the excuse of it being a moneymaking corporate holiday to not do anything. It doesn't need to be! There's nothing wrong with doing a little extra to show your lady (or man) how much you care about her. Good decision moving on.
So basically if I do something nice for a SO on 2/13 or 2/15, I should get dumped because I strongly believe V-day is full of and refuse to celebrate it?
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Old 02-21-2012, 07:44 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Lame. I dislike it when people hate V-Day and use the excuse of it being a moneymaking corporate holiday to not do anything. It doesn't need to be! There's nothing wrong with doing a little extra to show your lady (or man) how much you care about her. Good decision moving on.
Never mind V day. She was sick and had a birthday as well.
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Old 02-21-2012, 07:55 PM
 
Location: Albuquerque, NM
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So basically if I do something nice for a SO on 2/13 or 2/15, I should get dumped because I strongly believe V-day is full of and refuse to celebrate it?
Yeah you are taking things a little too literally.
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Old 02-21-2012, 07:57 PM
 
Location: Albuquerque, NM
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Never mind V day. She was sick and had a birthday as well.
I'm surprised he made it that long. Doing what he did, he couldn't have been much of a partner.
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