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Old 02-29-2012, 04:57 PM
 
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Well, Andy Garcia who was my neighbor when I lived in Toluca Lake, was at one time considered a good looking dude, but his wife was a friggin' Sasquatch. No kidding. She was/is (dont know if they are still married) very unattractive for a guy like him.
I think she was attractive at one time, based on pictures I've seen a long time ago. Her looks might have faded. I believe he actually married his high school sweetheart from South Florida with whom he shares a similar ethnicity.
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Old 02-29-2012, 05:05 PM
 
Location: USA
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I do a double take if I see a big disparity in looks.
I sometimes get a wierd look from some of my friends that associate weight with looks if I'm dating a woman who may be heavier. If a woman carries herself well it adds a lot to her looks. The opposite is true for a woman who carries herself poorly. Some women can pull off fake confidence even! Same goes for men!
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Old 02-29-2012, 05:08 PM
 
Location: Oakland, CA
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Most of these people married "equals," very much so, come to think of it. LOL.
Let's see, one married someone less attractive but way smarter (and she is really smart). They are a perfectly balanced pair and started off as best friends, I always hoped they would get married even though he wasn't her "type." (They have a one year old)

The second one is sort of the same story. She is a 9! And he was like a 6. And then he got older, and better looking. So they are pretty close now. Maybe he is an 8. (Great chemistry, they have a 2 year old)

Let's see number 3, they are even. Couple 4: hmm another stunning woman, her husband is about 2 below. She is like a 9, he is more like 7.

And another friend, oh I have no clue, I haven't seen him in an eternity, I know he is married and has a kid.

Couple 6: about even. But this is an asian girl/white guy pairing and one of the few I have ever seen where the white guy is actually cute. They have 2 kids. (Ok I know that is stereotyping, but most of the time I see I really cute asian girl with a not very attractive guy.) **usually I am really skeptical of white guys who only date ethnic girls, and this guy is one of those. But then I met his dad, and he was a photographer and their house was covered with pics of ethnic women. It all made sense.
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Old 02-29-2012, 05:12 PM
 
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In general, I can't believe some have been so INDIGNANT about this topic. It was started merely to see if people had similar or different perceptions. It's turned out to be a pi$$ing contest between men and women.
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Old 02-29-2012, 05:18 PM
 
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Then, you have the lucky ones like myself who for some reason (other than having a great personality and being fun to be around) have always dated 8s, 9s and 10s in looks. ALWAYS. I am honestly probably around a 7 in looks (on a good day), but am a 10 in fun, a 10 in bed, a 10 in character/honesty/commitment and have a 9......uh....you know.
You must have a big johnson because it sure isn't your personality that attracts anyone.

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You will rarely see a man who looks a 9 or 10 with a woman who looks a 5-6. Well, Andy Garcia who was my neighbor when I lived in Toluca Lake, was at one time considered a good looking dude, but his wife was a friggin' Sasquatch. No kidding. She was/is (dont know if they are still married) very unattractive for a guy like him.
You are such a judgmental, nasty man. You have just validated my previous comment.
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Old 02-29-2012, 05:21 PM
 
Location: US
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Whatever...I think Lao's feisty and I wouldn't want him any other way. I am sure his hot as hell russian wife wouldnt either.
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Old 02-29-2012, 05:23 PM
 
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In general, I can't believe some have been so INDIGNANT about this topic. It was started merely to see if people had similar or different perceptions. It's turned out to be a pi$$ing contest between men and women.
Based on what I've seen of your posts, you appear to be a player/instigator in that area. Congratulations.
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Old 02-29-2012, 05:23 PM
 
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I think Lao's feisty
Feisty is always more welcomed than uptight. Carry on.
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Old 02-29-2012, 05:39 PM
 
Location: SoCal - Sherman Oaks & Woodland Hills
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You must have a big johnson because it sure isn't your personality that attracts anyone.
Well, I have been given the nicknames "Miles Long", "Filler" and "Thicky" so do the math. Plus, Im funny and know how to make the ladies laugh - "What's 10 inches long and makes a woman scream?............ Crib Death. Oh come on, you know you are LOL'ing right now.


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You are such a judgmental, nasty man. You have just validated my previous comment.
Actually I am neither. Its just that some of my views and comments on topics differ from yours, but instead of understanding and knowing that others views on issues are different and accepting that fact, you call people names (nasty) and accuse them of being judgemental. I just say "Wow, interesting viewpoint there" and move on or engage in discussion.

I commented on the topic here and thats it. I am a 6-7 who married a 9-10. So, there are a few lucky ones out there like me who were able to land higher "ranking" people than ourselves. Its about more than just looks. Its about spiritual connection, mutual interests and shared values that are important to those who place little importance on just the petty physical things like looks.
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Old 02-29-2012, 05:47 PM
 
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Well, I have been given the nicknames "Miles Long", "Filler" and "Thicky" so do the math. Plus, Im funny and know how to make the ladies laugh - "What's 10 inches long and makes a woman scream?............ Crib Death. Oh come on, you know you are LOL'ing right now.
LOL, you're right
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