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Old 04-08-2012, 08:00 AM
 
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Any woman that settles for a man that does not want kids - will find in time that the man will start calling her mum. Any man that will settle for a woman that does not want kids will find himself her personal servant and butler---that works for free.
You live in such a tiny little box that I wonder if it gets claustrophobic in there.
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Old 04-08-2012, 09:13 AM
 
Location: Lower east side of Toronto
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You live in such a tiny little box that I wonder if it gets claustrophobic in there.
Lived in a bigger box....and lived outside the box...and sometimes to make a point I go back to that small little box...and no I don't get clausterphobic...if I do...I just leave...

The point I made does not apply to ALL people but to a few..that do exist...Just trying to get the point across that the idea of loyalty breeds royalty.


It's just up to me the old guy to make a point and at least get you to think..rather than live in a big box where you believe you have all the answers..


All I know about this subject ...is that it is about team players...seen loyal partners and those who are not...a "wife" to be good material...has to be intelligent...try to marry up rather than down...or settle for take out food and sex as the base for marriage.
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Old 04-08-2012, 02:33 PM
 
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I think every man has their own definition of wife material. Mine would go something like this:

Trustworthiness -- the most important trait to me is whether she can be trusted with my life, finances, etc.

Intelligence -- has to be someone I can carry a real conversation with

Sense of humor -- someone who will laugh at my bad jokes would be preferable

Level of maintenance -- someone who is high maintenance would generally not be considered wife material to me.

Independence -- I am a very independent person. I don't want to be with someone who wants to boss me around or be bossed around in every facet of life. I know people in these types of relationships and they are miserable. I don't want to be miserable. I understand when you get married there are sacrifices but there is a point where both people need some space.
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