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Old 06-16-2012, 08:27 PM
 
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From the few posters in this thread that claim to be very ugly, I can see why you can't find a partner, and it has NOTHING to do with your physical appearance.

 
Old 06-16-2012, 08:34 PM
 
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From the few posters in this thread that claim to be very ugly, I can see why you can't find a partner, and it has NOTHING to do with your physical appearance.
Bull****. I have tried over the years.

I'll post a pic later so you can all tear me down. I need the truth, not just the cold shoulder. **** this world.
 
Old 06-16-2012, 08:48 PM
 
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Bull****. I have tried over the years.

I'll post a pic later so you can all tear me down. I need the truth, not just the cold shoulder. **** this world.

Well why not just do it now and get it over with. It's like you're backing yourself in a corner when no one else is forcing you to be there. Stop being afraid. Do it.
 
Old 06-16-2012, 09:11 PM
 
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Well why not just do it now and get it over with. It's like you're backing yourself in a corner when no one else is forcing you to be there. Stop being afraid. Do it.
Dear Internet Smartass,

Trust me, if I were about to do it, I wouldn't be posting on here. Doesn't stop me from feeling it though.
 
Old 06-16-2012, 09:15 PM
 
Location: Lower east side of Toronto
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How does someone who is extremely ugly get a date if they are not rich? I consider myself to be very ugly, yet I still see people who are married with kids and some of them look like mutants. Whats their secret?
CONFIDENCE and honesty...PLUS a good heart- seems that you are honest...Yah- I have seen real pretty people who have dog awful ugly kids- and I have seen ugly men who have beautiful kids..genetics plays a few tricks once in a while.. Beautiful men and woman are sometimes very shy....if you are gentle with a beautiful woman - she will love you...
 
Old 06-16-2012, 09:41 PM
 
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Dear Internet Smartass,

Trust me, if I were about to do it, I wouldn't be posting on here. Doesn't stop me from feeling it though.
Boy I don't care if I'm staring at you face to face or typing on the internet. This is how I would speak to you in both cases, and it goes for every post I have ever written.

You don't have to post a picture, but you've written that you should do it. You won't because you don't have it in you.

Show the world of CD a picture of what you look like. Prove to us that you are this "hideous" guy you proclaim to be, or quit with the picture talk.
 
Old 06-17-2012, 06:52 AM
 
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Well here is a list of ugly men, yet they still got dates with beautiful women:




Gene Simmons



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Old 06-17-2012, 07:58 AM
 
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From the few posters in this thread that claim to be very ugly, I can see why you can't find a partner, and it has NOTHING to do with your physical appearance.
Nope, you don't. It has everything to do with my physical appearance. I am not hiding in a room somewhere. I'm actually a well-liked person, respected at work, active in my community. I decided after my few post-divorce attempts at dating and coming to the awful realization that the only men that are available to someone like me are alcoholics that I was not going to let my singleness keep me from living. I go out to dinner by myself occasionally, go to the beach by myself all the time, go to the library alone, belong to a writer's group to have some contact with others outside of work, etc. I won't lie--sometimes it bothers me enough moving through a world of couples that I will remove myself from situations that are painful. I have a friend who always invites me over when she having a party or something, and last year at the holiday season I chose to decline simply because I am ALWAYS the only person there without a signficant other. At the end of such evenings, I go home feeling sad, and I just don't want to do that anymore. I told her why I wouldn't come, and she said she understood.

As I said in the other post, I can make myself presentable. I cannot make myself attractive, and I sure as hell cannot make myself normal height.

I am in my fifties now. I did not learn that I was unattractive by telling myself that in a mirror. I learned it because I have heard it from others since I was a pre-teen, and as I got older, by the rejection from the opposite sex.
 
Old 06-17-2012, 08:00 AM
 
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Well here is a list of ugly men, yet they still got dates with beautiful women:




Gene Simmons


ROFL! But they all have money--the most powerful aphrodisiac there is!
 
Old 06-17-2012, 08:13 AM
 
Location: Ohio
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Well here is a list of ugly men, yet they still got dates with beautiful women:
NONE of those pictured are "ugly".
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