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Old 03-23-2012, 07:03 AM
 
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She always wanted more of my time than I was willing or able to provide, I developed a case of the wandering eyes, and the relationship became contentious.
Blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.

Now that you've had your say from your perspective, probably you feel better. I didn't have to read past the first paragraph to know you wanted to break it off and move on, and didn't.

So, young man, where is the logic there?
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Old 03-23-2012, 07:38 AM
 
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FYI Men pull this same shyt as well so get off your gender bashing crap
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Old 03-23-2012, 07:49 AM
 
Location: Petticoat Junction
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If you were done with the rel, why did you keep answering when she called back?
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Old 03-23-2012, 07:58 AM
 
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You may not have intended the pun....I beg to differ...A "Playa" doesn't have a heart.
Your post makes no sense.
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Old 03-23-2012, 08:24 AM
 
Location: Infernuan
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Girl sounds like a nutcase to me. I was in a similar situation... told her if you leave keep on going! Don't come back cuz you'll be speaking to the door. When a person makes a decision I expect them to stick with it, not pull a whiny-cry-y-drama-fest when she doesn't get the reaction she wants. People who do that **** are manipulative and frankly are not worthy of my time.
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Old 03-23-2012, 08:41 AM
 
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Why is LOGIC so hard to use where relationships are concerned?
She was being logical, with respect to what she wanted (that is, validation).


Anton Chigurh was logical , too

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Old 03-23-2012, 08:42 AM
 
Location: Homeless
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Why is LOGIC so hard to use where relationships are concerned?

I was going to title this thread, “Why are WOMEN so illogical in relationships?” but one, I wanted to respect the no-gender-bashing rule, and two, since I’ve never been in a relationship with a dude, for all I know many of them could be just as bad.

Somebody please help a playa out.


Relationship/love isn't logical never has or will be. Second playa?????

: smack:
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Old 03-23-2012, 08:57 AM
 
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WOMEN are not logical creatures, especially when angry. just learn to say "yes dear" and move on, you will be much happier.

with a woman you can either be right or happy, never both at the same time!
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Old 03-23-2012, 09:02 AM
 
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The OP should start writing romance novels for men where they ditch their passive-aggressive women and find happiness with ESPN and beer.
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Old 03-23-2012, 09:04 AM
 
Location: U.S.A.
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When a person makes a decision I expect them to stick with it, not pull a whiny-cry-y-drama-fest when she doesn't get the reaction she wants. People who do that **** are manipulative and frankly are not worthy of my time.

The reality here though is he clearly set her up to react this way. That's the manipulative part.
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