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If I were you, I would pick up this month's copy of Muscle & Fitness HERS, and check out when and where the next amateur women's competitions for this sport are being held. It might be in a city near you, maybe no farther than a couple hours away. I bet you will find at least local woman there competing. And two hours is not too far to drive to date a woman, if you have a job and a car.
I do have a bodyspace profile actually. Not too much luck on there, but maybe in time something will come. I have tried POF, but I couldn't find anyone in my city there either.
There is a local competition coming up, I just have to see if I am off work that day before I get tickets.
One of my uncle's is a physical trainer and bodybuilder. He met most of the women that are into the same thing at his competitions, the gym where he works, and also on those online bodybuilding forums. I guess they have local meetups.
Bro, I also am into bodybuilding pretty seriously, but do not compete either. I wish I had an easy answer, but I think you actually said it yourself in your post; "most women just aren't that into having muscles." I will take that one step further and say women by and large aren't all that into a real muscular, (bodybuilder type), man. IMO a woman would rather be in a serious relationship with an average built dude that treats her right and is financially stable than a guy with muscles that is a complete as$hole and is always broke. And yes I have seen examples of the latter in real life, sad, but true. I'm not a huge guy, (5'4 200lbs), but due to my lack of height, lol, my muscles are more pronounced. Anytime I've gone into a club or bar I've gotten more stares from guys than girls, no joke. Other than my arms, I haven't recieved that many compliments from girls on muscles, and my back is best bodypart, but girls don't care about a damn lat spread. I know I'm getting a little off topic, but what kind of gym do you train in? Is it a hardcore gym or more of a health club type gym. I honestly think the gym is your best bet. Would you date an average built girl or does she have to have muscles?
I love lifting weights, and seriously need to get back into it. I was never afraid of muscle, though I absolutely dont like the real BIG look. The woman that Gatsby posted is bigger than what I would find to be nice for a woman. The woman that GOBARK posted needs MORE muscle. I think throw just a hair more meat and a tad bit more muscle tone on GOBARKS pic and that is what I would admire on a woman.
So I have been thinking, maybe the girl that I posted was a little bit too big. That's not exclusively what I am attracted to. What about a Crossfit woman?
So I have been thinking, maybe the girl that I posted was a little bit too big. That's not exclusively what I am attracted to. What about a Crossfit woman?
She has good definition and clarity. Love that look.
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