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I have lived in several states and have seen people across a variety of SES and I've yet to meet an ugly person. Bad personalities and bad character are out there a'plenty, but not ugly. I really wouldn't know how to qualify this topic.
Is there a nuclear reactor somewhere near where you live? Toxic landfill?
I know it does seem dismal.
Whenever I go out,I see people whisper and look at me.
People are mean for no reason at all to me,esp cashiers.
Then again,it seems women cashiers are mean to me,men are ok.
I'm not talking about sex only relationships,more marriage minded relationships.
I realize ugly men can get money and won't have to worry as much as an unattractive woman.
Do very unattractive women stay single,or almost always the other woman?
Normally, men are visually attracted by a multitude of women. While some of these women will be the same for most men, their tastes sometimes have eccentricities. Hence, a woman most people consider "ugly" could be very attractive to a man out there.
I think women actually have it a lot easier than men. All a woman has to do is have female genitalia and she attract at least some males. Men generally have to do more work. You see many "big beautiful women" who have BMIs of 40 or 45 out there with partners, but fat males seem to be more often single.
Normally, men are visually attracted by a multitude of women. While some of these women will be the same for most men, their tastes sometimes have eccentricities. Hence, a woman most people consider "ugly" could be very attractive to a man out there.
I think women actually have it a lot easier than men. All a woman has to do is have female genitalia and she attract at least some males. Men generally have to do more work. You see many "big beautiful women" who have BMIs of 40 or 45 out there with partners, but fat males seem to be more often single.
I disagree... A woman might get male attention simply because she has a vagina, but do you know how it feels to be told 'you're ok for sex.... But I would never be in a relationship with you' by a person of the opposite sex? It hurts, a lot.
As for attractiveness, women are judged on their looks for nearly everything. I worked at a place where I was part o the interview team and you wouldn't believe how many times I was 'outvoted' because the other two guys decided a perfectly qualified woman wasn't 'hot enough' to hire. Their reasoning? Well, we have to look at her all day.
Of an unattractive man has a shining personality most women will overlook his looks, I've seen it soooo many times. I've rarely seen it with unattractive women. They're fine to sleep with, but not good enough to be seen in public with.
I'm not talking about sex only relationships,more marriage minded relationships....Do very unattractive women stay single,or almost always the other woman?
Anyone who feels that they're unworthy of love, happiness, etc., should do something to that empowers/makes them feel good about their self worth. Things like getting in shape, taking a college course, getting a makeover, and see a therapist will change your attitude about yourself. And once you change your perception of self (what was once unattractive will be no longer) , others will see you differently as well.
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Why do the kids on this board find this concept so hard to grasp? Have they never met a cool, funny and interesting person who is unattractive?
Because they live in a world saturated with celebrity women who all have been physically altered. Therefore, natural beauty is not enough and regular women must ramp up their looks to even compete. I don't see ugly in women. Instead, I see no makeup, an unflattering hairstyle or outfits.....
Ever see the show "What Not to Wear"? They take women that wouldn't fall anywhere near the bombshell category and after a haircut and some makeup and outfits that fit their body type, every one of them is STUNNING at the end....
JG4U: persons come off sounding and living very attractively when they emphasize their assets and attributes that they feel good about.
PS: I've always loved coke bottles.
Xiansheng-g, I couldn't rep you enough for a superior post INCLUDING pics.
Act like a hot girl. People will be confused by your confidence, and fall for you.
Start acting like you're the hottest thing in the world.
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