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I've gone on about 10+ dates with this guy that I really like. We've spent the weekend together, etc. He seems pretty interested.
About 6 months ago, he got out of a 10 yr relationship. He says hes never going back with her, but there are some things they are taking care of (car in his name that she drives, money, etc).
We seem to have a connection, and he says he really likes me. This AM in bed, I asked him if he thinks I'm someone he would want to have a relationship with.
He said I ask the wrong questions at the wrong time. He didn't say it in a bad way, or mean way.
I don't want to keep going on dates with him, etc if he doesn't want a relationship.
I'm not sure what to do right now..He doesn't like to be pestered with questions.
I don't know why so many of you young women make this mistake over and over, AND OVER again
If you wanted a relationship with him, you should have held off on the sex until you actually had the maturity to talk to him and get to know him well enough to know what he wants.
A man coming out of a long term relationship like that is not one I would touch with a ten foot pole. Apparently you aren't as discriminating. You might want to rethink your choices for you own good going forward.
I don't know why so many of you young women make this mistake over and over, AND OVER again
If you wanted a relationship with him, you should have held off on the sex until you actually had the maturity to talk to him and get to know him well enough to know what he wants.
A man coming out of a long term relationship like that is not one I would touch with a ten foot pole. Apparently you aren't as discriminating. You might want to rethink your choices for you own good going forward.
I agree a lot of them have sex 'too soon' and then it's no secret why they don't get called back or taken seriously thereafter.
I've gone on about 10+ dates with this guy that I really like. We've spent the weekend together, etc. He seems pretty interested.
About 6 months ago, he got out of a 10 yr relationship. He says hes never going back with her, but there are some things they are taking care of (car in his name that she drives, money, etc).
We seem to have a connection, and he says he really likes me. This AM in bed, I asked him if he thinks I'm someone he would want to have a relationship with.
He said I ask the wrong questions at the wrong time. He didn't say it in a bad way, or mean way.
I don't want to keep going on dates with him, etc if he doesn't want a relationship.
I'm not sure what to do right now..He doesn't like to be pestered with questions.
It sounds like the channels of communication are not very open. If you don't have the same long term goals you need to see if you guys have the same short-term goals; booty call, dating partner, casual outings, etc.... if you do than don't ask for more or expect more.
if you want a ltr out of this guy find out if he just needs more time or is just playing the passive avoidance game of not answering your question or communicating with you or if he has commitment issues after his breakup? either way without good communication you can't expect too much from this relationship.
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