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I've been together with my girlfriend for about 5 months now, and since day 1 i didn't want to leave her side again! For about 2-3 months, everything went good and we saw eachother multiple times a week. Now, i have the feeling i'm texting her too much. Lately i only see her once or twice a week. I miss her every second of the day, if she doesn't send me i feel bad.
I play football, so i do have a hobby and i'm now looking for a job. But even at my training i think of her, it's like i'm obsessed with her. (She isn't as attached to me as i am to her.)
How can i stop this?
Hanging around with my friends doesn't entirely work, going to the gym doesn't entirely work, playing football doesn't entirely work..
What is wrong with me?
This is part of a new relationship, not to worry. Lasts longer for some than others, it'll fade a bit given time. Do you feel that she feels good about you and your relationship?
You need to be a person who is worthy of her. A person who is worthy of her, has a job and is in a place in life to grow in a positive way. Are you like that?
I've been together with my girlfriend for about 5 months now, and since day 1 i didn't want to leave her side again! For about 2-3 months, everything went good and we saw eachother multiple times a week. Now, i have the feeling i'm texting her too much. Lately i only see her once or twice a week. I miss her every second of the day, if she doesn't send me i feel bad.
I play football, so i do have a hobby and i'm now looking for a job. But even at my training i think of her, it's like i'm obsessed with her. (She isn't as attached to me as i am to her.)
How can i stop this?
Hanging around with my friends doesn't entirely work, going to the gym doesn't entirely work, playing football doesn't entirely work..
What is wrong with me?
don't constantly text her.
Trick yourself - leave your cell in the car or at home if you are at training or at the gym. If the phone isn't near you, there is nothing you can do ... Turn it off sometimes.
Don't always text her back immediately. Keep some space.
This will be less of an issue when you're working full-time. Right now you don't have anything major taking up most of your day, and you're probably a little bit lonely, so your mind goes to your girlfriend.
Oops, didn't realize this was a necromanced thread. Ugh.
Since the OP hasn't posted anything since 2012, I hope he's over her by now.
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