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Originally Posted by the city
So I made a new friend last week. He lives in a city a half hour away, and in turns I will be relocating to the city where I already have 2 friends. The only thing is this new friend is married, so would it be worth my time to invest in a relationship? If people are married, then do they still invest time in friendships?
Any advice is appreciated. Is it too soon to enter this friendship and is it worth investing the time? The guy is making an effort though to be a good mentor. And we also attend the same church sometimes.
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Do straight men really talk this way about their friendships? Sorry but when I read this I get the same kind of feeling that I got when my now-ex husband called his new friend and asked him if he wanted to go out and have a beer with him--just something a little weird about the wording and I wouldn't even bring it up b/c your sexuality is your business, but the friend is married.
If you are indeed straight and this question is straight up then why not just see where the friendship leads? Platonically I mean. If he is willing to go hiking with you then he probably wants to be friends, but why sweat it now.
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