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Old 03-28-2012, 12:10 AM
 
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Just a question, I recently talked to an old crush of mine are Facebook, I don't have any feelings for her, but she is 20 years old and has a child. Her boyfriend hasn't been heard from since they had an argument. I thought it would be interesting to ask, would you date someone you were interested in even if they have a child? What would you do? Would you treat them any differently?
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Old 03-28-2012, 12:12 AM
 
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No.
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Old 03-28-2012, 12:26 AM
 
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just a question, i recently talked to an old crush of mine are facebook, i don't have any feelings for her, but she is 20 years old and has a child. Her boyfriend hasn't been heard from since they had an argument. I thought it would be interesting to ask, would you date someone you were interested in even if they have a child? what would you do? Would you treat them any differently?


hell no!!!!!!!!!! Too much baggage
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Old 03-28-2012, 12:34 AM
 
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For a LTR, no.

FBuddy, yes.
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Old 03-28-2012, 01:16 AM
 
Location: Cincinnati, Ohio
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If I liked the person enough, of course I would. I don't know why anyone would give a woman the impression that if she is single and has a child, she is doomed to be single the rest of her life.

Children aren't baggage. They're little people.
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Old 03-28-2012, 02:02 AM
 
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20 with a baby..Oh Hell NO.. Children are misery makers. That baby one day will be a teenager. Then again just for dating purposes the odds are better for the woman putting out faster. Just use double protection.
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Old 03-28-2012, 02:05 AM
 
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Never in a million years.
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Old 03-28-2012, 02:13 AM
 
Location: southern california
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it could work out it depends 100% on her expectations and that of the child. your good and generous and caring attitude might not be enough.
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Old 03-28-2012, 02:22 AM
 
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These kind of question it's usually divided as men saying hell no and women looking at it from a relationship working point of view.

Not to bust on the ladies but take notice. If you meet a man don't let him meet your kids until after the wedding. LOL. Then the kids can bum rush him yelling DADDY..
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Old 03-28-2012, 03:10 AM
 
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Hell no
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