Does" you and I" equals "we" (date, boyfriend)

[ppsyout]

This probably would rank on top of the silliest thread on cd, but here goes.

Bf likes to refer he and his ex as "we", when it comes to us, he likes to use the phrase" you and I "

Today, he was saying something like " remember the placed where you and I walked by?"

I was not too happy, he says it's just the way people speak, is that so?

[intelfan11315]

Uh... my guess is your boyfriend has no clue what is being done here

[ppsyout]

I don't know if I'm over alalyzing. But here's an example

when he talks about the places he went with the ex, he would say, "we went here and there"

But when we were in las vagas, he tells his brother" I'm in vagas, I stay at xx hotel".

[imcurious]

It's not a good sign and you are smart to pick up on it. Is he still hung up on the ex? And not too crazy about you? I would take that to heart and think about getting a new bf who would describe your couple activities as "we" and would have little to say about an ex.

[stan4]

Why don't you just ask him?

[ppsyout]

Originally Posted by stan4

Why don't you just ask him?

I did, he got irritated and says it's rediculous and that it's the way people speak.

[ppsyout]

Originally Posted by imcurious

It's not a good sign and you are smart to pick up on it. Is he still hung up on the ex? And not too crazy about you? I would take that to heart and think about getting a new bf who would describe your couple activities as "we" and would have little to say about an ex.

is this from a girl or a guy? lol.

[lovesthebass]

Just over analyzing it apparently, but most people would be saying "we" to both the stories of the ex and the current relationship.

Weird guy.

[stan4]

Originally Posted by ppsyout

I did, he got irritated and says it's rediculous and that it's the way people speak.

There's your answer.
I don't see what a bunch of strangers could add to this.
If you can't take him at his word, why date him?

[virgode]

Originally Posted by ppsyout

I don't know if I'm over alalyzing. But here's an example

when he talks about the places he went with the ex, he would say, "we went here and there"

But when we were in las vagas, he tells his brother" I'm in vagas, I stay at xx hotel".

You are not part of the picture.....When will you wake up?

Have you ever heard the expression 'the writings on the wall'? Do you like to be lied to and post for a forums take?