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Old 06-19-2012, 09:46 AM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Originally Posted by jobaba View Post
Because the majority of women can get 'just sex' easily, so getting laid is not an accomplishment for them.
I don't know where this misconception comes from. I think it mainly comes from guys' imaginations or from their frustration at having trouble getting sex.

 
Old 06-19-2012, 09:48 AM
 
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I don't know where this misconception comes from. I think it mainly comes from guys' imaginations or from their frustration at having trouble getting sex.
So you are saying that women have such a hard and challenging time convicing a guy to have sex with them? Really, what effort do you have to make as a woman to convince a guy to go to bed with you or how often do you get rejected?
 
Old 06-19-2012, 09:48 AM
 
Location: Austin
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I think "using" anyone is a big deal no matter what year it is. I'm not sure why it would ever be okay to use someone on purpose. This post makes you sound like a jerk. If you just want a piece then go get a hooker or go find some woman in a bar who wants the same thing you do. Whatever.
Disgusting. And I am also really getting tired of the "It's 2012" argument! Good manners and kindness should not have to disappear just because of the year we are in.
 
Old 06-19-2012, 09:56 AM
 
Location: Austin
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Maybe they think we're all gonna die in December...lol
I am always giving folks a hard time about this. I think they do it because they lack a viable argument. They are lazy and resort to this cliche because they genuinely have no other ideas about why we do or don't display certain behaviors. These are the people who don't seem to understand values, no matter what kind.
 
Old 06-19-2012, 10:01 AM
 
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I have no problem with that as long as it's made clear in the very beginning on both sides
 
Old 06-19-2012, 10:01 AM
 
Location: Austin
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But thats what I dont understand how is it negative.

How is it degrading?

How does it hurt your feelings???

How is it immoral???

Your not selling your body. Your not exchanging favors for drugs....your not picking up garbage out of can to make your money...
What you are asking is worse. Expecting a woman to GIVE you, free of charge even, full access to her body with ZERO regard to the fact that she is a human being who feels. Are you thinking she should not feel degraded because just possessing female body parts is some kind of indicator that her only role in life is to let men have sex with her?
 
Old 06-19-2012, 10:04 AM
 
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What you are asking is worse. Expecting a woman to GIVE you, free of charge even, full access to her body with ZERO regard to the fact that she is a human being who feels. Are you thinking she should not feel degraded because just possessing female body parts is some kind of indicator that her only role in life is to let men have sex with her?

Red, I totally get what you are saying as I'm a woman but trust me, there are times when the AA batteries just aren't enough....
 
Old 06-19-2012, 10:05 AM
 
Location: Austin
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That's asinine. You go to work to do a job for a specific amount of money and benefits. It's agreed upon and it's a choice. Your employer doesn't say they will give you X amount of money, X401k funds, and X number of days off and then you find out they were lying. That's not how it works.
This dude has no idea, makes me wonder how he was raised. Sad, really. He's just a little beta boy is all.
 
Old 06-19-2012, 10:08 AM
 
Location: State of Transition
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So you are saying that women have such a hard and challenging time convicing a guy to have sex with them? Really, what effort do you have to make as a woman to convince a guy to go to bed with you or how often do you get rejected?
The first step is that there has to be mutual interest, someone has to be interested enough just to say "hello" and have a conversation (or to respond to a hello). Men have their preferences in looks, they pass women up ALL THE TIME. How many of the women you see in the grocery store would you be willing to have a conversation with, let alone get more involved with? All of them? I doubt it. Half of them? Probably not even that.
 
Old 06-19-2012, 10:19 AM
 
Location: Austin
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You two could start an internet club.
Having "spoken" with both of them before, I can tell you that neither one of them has a genuine "like" for women and that is the problem. They do not consider it a honor or a good thing to love a woman or take care of one. They are both severely immature and stuck in some type of bitter mindset rational folks cannot understand.
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