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Old 04-10-2012, 09:06 AM
 
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That's OK. Some of us are fine with being "dehumanized"!
yeah.. but i wasn't going to open that can of worms.

i just think all their criticism about "game" is totally hypocritical. complain when we don't approach, and when we do it's "dehumanizing" !
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Old 04-10-2012, 09:07 AM
 
Location: Central North Carolina
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If you want women to be interest-ED, then you need to be interest-ING; and the easiest way in the world to do that is to pursue your interests, and women who are interested in that will suddenly, magically appear.
Possibly the most accurate, concise, and useful sentence I've read on the relationship forum ever. Post this as a sticky, and 90% of the boring, redundant threads on here can go away!

Reps absolutely coming your way. Bravo!
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Old 04-10-2012, 09:33 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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yeah.. but i wasn't going to open that can of worms.

i just think all their criticism about "game" is totally hypocritical. complain when we don't approach, and when we do it's "dehumanizing" !
No, approaching in general is not the issue. The dehumanizing part happens when men don't look at women as actual people who'd be nice to get to know, but just as objects (or guardians of sex) to be acquired or conquered. As if women are all the same, and should all be treated and approached as such, and will respond like trained seals.

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Old 04-10-2012, 09:38 AM
 
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No, the dehumanizing part happens when men don't look at women as actual people who'd be nice to get to know, but just as objects (or guardians of sex) to be acquired or conquered. As if women are all the same, and should all be treated and approached as such.
ok...but that has nothing to do with "game." People "game" their own wives to keep them interested. "Day Game" is just walking up to random women and starting conversations; for all we know it could be for the purpose of finding a wife.

Furthermore, human beings have sex, so even if a guy is engaging a woman for some potential sexual activity, that is not "dehumanizing.".. if anything, it is a validation of their humanity. Not wanting to have sex with a woman would be dehumanizing.
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Old 04-11-2012, 01:27 PM
 
Location: in Mary Ann and Ginger's hut
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day game is awesome, especially in denser walking cities with mass transit, cafes, etc or on campuses or resort towns. Normal human interaction, the flirt and giggle. Way better than artificial club environments, running gauntlets and piercing b***** shields. Leads to more hookups
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Old 04-11-2012, 01:30 PM
 
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